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Matchmaking Game - part 146
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HI    NO!!!! I figured if you were gonna steal all the hot guys on the other threads, I would need Miss Deb's assistance. lol how many guys is she stealing atm? 5 or 6 that I counted today including you so by default that means i'm hot....YAY!!!!! 6 guys? shadow...you really been on the prow! |
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Have an honest, non-accusatory talk with him, and make it clear to him that you view this as a real issue. See if you two can come to some sort of agreement that might work well for both of you. If not, then you need to decide whether you can live happily in a relationship where you're not sexually satisfied. good advice... but let me point out one thing. When you bring most guys into a 'talk' it's implied that its accusatory. Now when you tell a guy he's not sexually santisfying you...thats generally a recipe for disaster. It's knda like telling a guy he has a small ****. Even if its not true, it will always be in the back of his mind and he will always try to make up for it. If you have the talk you gotta do it in a way where it makes him feel more confident in bed, not less confident. |
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Matchmaking Game - part 146
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HI NO!!!! I figured if you were gonna steal all the hot guys on the other threads, I would need Miss Deb's assistance. lol how many guys is she stealing atm? |
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Matchmaking Game - part 146
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(((((((((((((((((UNIQUE))))))))))))) i missed ya yay! i was missed! i'm back for a short time in short sperts... |
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any club that would want me as a member, i dont think i would want to belong to. It totally applys to my dating life...
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Matchmaking Game - part 146
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Hi everyone! i like your handle! |
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Matchmaking Game - part 146
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Well I can't beat two against one. Ok for REAL this time..take care all..it's been a blast!...for the most part.  think i might take a leave of absence as well. |
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I have been dating this wonderful man for the past 11 months.Things were great but we have a little problem that is going to end up being a big one if it doesnt get better. I am 5 years younger than him and I think that we are sexually incompatible..........I have a high labido and he doesnt..........so what should I do end it now or should i try other things(which I have but) its kind of becoming a pain............(Advice Please!) A guy not wanting alot of sex usually means one of three things. He's depressed, your not doing what he likes or he's just not that into you and or cheating. My last gf lasted a very very short time because sex sucked. I didn't want it, because she was the type to lay there or want this and that. You kinda have to exparament with each person to find what they like, unless there REALLY expierenced and know. and that doesn't mean just the amount of times. It means the amount of stuff they tried. Honestly, sex is usually the easiest thing to fix. I had a friend who saved her marriage and sex life simply by dressing up as a catholic school girl outfit once a week and learning how to talk dirty. It seems kinda silly, but it's true. Usually there is one thing that each person has that turns them on so much that there pretty much always ready to go knowing its there. To be honest, traditional quickies and the same repeated things is what makes it uninteresting for most guys, cause we are visual people. That being said, it's stupid to end a relastionship if sex is the only problem. Thing is, i've never heard of a relastionship where sex was the only problem, nor one that was good everywhere else but sex. There is usually a missing piece hidden somewhere. Sex may seem like no big deal but then you just said that your relationship ended because the sex sucked.............I think he is into me but I think that I have been the aggressor so long he just waits for me.............by the way thats why im askig for peoples opinion so that i can see a different perspective.............I was planning on spending the rest of my life with him but if we lack communication what is the point........... Well see, thats what i mean. Yes, sex sucked last time, but it was because she said she liked one thing, but in turn really didnt, and when i told her what i liked she just didnt bother doing it...ever. Thats not sexual incompatability, thats just really bad communication. The one time we did communicate, it was awkward at first and i didnt really get a chance to get comfy with it. If you can find a way to encourage him to tell you what to do in bed, and for you to tell him what to do WITHOUT hurting his ego, yours, or messing with any issues, then sex honestly gets to a whole new level. Most people can't, simply because its awkward at first and you feel stupid. Honestly if i was a chick, i would flirt with the guy to find out differnt things to try. Maybie watch a porno and see what he likes. 11 months of the same sex makes it routine (if its the same) and makes it less desireable then before. Honestly, most chicks hate to hear this, but we like it changed up a bit. If you start it, then yea, we probly expect you to change it up. The fact that your the aggressor might also be huge into it. I love being jumped every now and then. It's a turn on, but it's also a turn on to jump a sig other. In my expierence chicks that where always the aggresors usually made it hard for me to make the first moves. Even when we where dating for a bit. Either there intimadating, or you honestly think they prefer it that way. One thing one of my ex's did that totally broke that was she dressed up in something i thought was completely hot, and just did her normal day to day things until i just was like **** it, i want some. Though it took a few and i dont think she expected that result. End result, if you keep trying with the guy you'll get frustrated before you figure out what works. You'll figure out what works or find out that nothing works sooner or later. If you really planned on spending the rest of your life with him, then maybie it's worth it to follow the path to the end and see. |
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 yea for once i'm confused too. |
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pathetic experience
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I can totally relate. I had a guy bite me on the neck like a cheeseburger once, after I had just shot pool. No warning, no flirting, nothing. I was bruised and had to wear make-up on my neck for a week. It's just the luck of the draw sometimes. Think of it as posting fodder. I hope you can laugh about it? Please don't give up... Im finding a pattern here...both of you were shooting pool...Hmmm ..what could that mean..????LOL Nah, it's all dependant on how much the girl likes you at that point. The guy moved to soon. If a girl is totally into you, that would be considered romantic (unless you hesitate) and passionate. If the girl is so so about you, its creepy. Generally, i like to get to know a chick for a bit before i go for the battle charge of sticking my tongue down her throat. And even then, it's more fun when you let them make the first move. |
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Matchmaking Game - part 146
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i just got yelled at by my boss.... i hate him... he's evil! *pouts and flutters eyelashes* backrub? shake....your no the one who had an evil boss yell at you meanily! |
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Matchmaking Game - part 146
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i just got yelled at by my boss.... i hate him... he's evil! *pouts and flutters eyelashes* backrub? |
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Matchmaking Game - part 146
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i just got yelled at by my boss.... i hate him... he's evil!
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Men
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Oh man this was taken the wrong way... It wasn't for the guys to say their momma's boys....I think it's awesome when a man adores his mom...there is nothing to show how a man is going to treat his women more then how he treats his mom. Men don't treat their gf's and moms the same. If you want to know how a guy treats his gf's, find out what happened when a gf breaks up with him that he liked/loved. Tests of honor and how people really are is when they are justified in screwing someone over. Passing the test is when you don't even though you could easily of done it. Though to alot of chicks that means the guys also a doormat. |
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Matchmaking Game - part 146
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Got to get things finished before the class... Later everyone later stormy! |
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going back to corner unique escaped an his cheating on me again lol  Sooooo if i'm cheating on you, does that mean we are going out? |
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Matchmaking Game - part 146
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i second that Well, for those that missed it, storm and shadow didnt want me to leave so i said only if her celtic or storm aggreed to date me, then they said no, so i ran, and then shadow ruthlessly tied me up and stuff, and storm joined in, and there doing stuff but wont tell me what there doing :( And then storm was going to punch me but then shadow slapped me, so emily nursed me back to health, but at present i'm tied up, and i dont know whats going on :( HELP!!! HELP!!! shhhhh your nursing me back to health atm.... ! That's kind of hard when I wasn't here when it was going on. You where here in spirit and thats what counts! If anyone wants to question why i am single, the above post explains it perfectly :p |
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Matchmaking Game - part 146
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i second that Well, for those that missed it, storm and shadow didnt want me to leave so i said only if her celtic or storm aggreed to date me, then they said no, so i ran, and then shadow ruthlessly tied me up and stuff, and storm joined in, and there doing stuff but wont tell me what there doing :( And then storm was going to punch me but then shadow slapped me, so emily nursed me back to health, but at present i'm tied up, and i dont know whats going on :( HELP!!! HELP!!! shhhhh your nursing me back to health atm.... ! |
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Matchmaking Game - part 146
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whistles an looks over an unique ummmm who untied you lol  I already told you, i know like 8 billion martial arts, including escape-jitsu |
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Matchmaking Game - part 146
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Hey bad! long time no see! how's it going?
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