I thank you for your comment.

I appreciated.

we can be friends as you wish.

thank you for your comment.


I'll keep that in mind.

Finding the right person is very hard and very wrong. I always end up disappointed when I set standards and define a 'right person'.... and I thought don't rush things because somewhere and somehow God is preparing someone for me.

I would not be in a hurry to get into a relationship because I can't find love if I insist that I'm already into it. I have to find time to really understand my real feelings, to know who I really am, and what I really want in a relationship.

You're right there's no such thing as a perfect relationship but there's a compatible partnership that goes along with it.

I must try to let go and give myself a chance to grow and give myself a chance and a much needed attention. Then I will find that I have made the right decision and I made it all by myself.

* we call it love when we're too attached and think that losing the one we love will somehow make us weak and unable to face the storms of life. ---- we misunderstood; it's just that we're too much dependent to them.

* we call it love when we give our whole life to them, the wholeness of us and imagined that if they leave us, no one would accept us in our past. ---- we are mistaken; it's just insecurity.

BUT no matter what the definition is, the truth still remains.. that LOVE is not something that we can buy or beg. It is real and existing.

We can not touch it but it can feel it in our heart.
We cant not find it, but it will knock.
It can make us the happiest soul on earth, but it can also make us the most miserable person in the whole world.

:::: When I lose you, and when we think I'm the one who loved most between the two of us, you lost me more. For someday I can love someone the way that I loved you.. But, you can never be loved the way that I did..

I thank you for your message.. You're absolutely right.

I have to keep myself beautiful inside and out and arm myself with wit and confidence without the intention to attract guys.

Have a wonderful day!

A wonderful poem it is..

Blindfolded and walking alone- that is what I feel right now. In a lifetime full of major risks and decisions, it might seen suffer to remain stagnant. but it isn't more fulfilling if despite the fear of falling from cliff and bruised knees, steps were taken? In the end, losing and mistakes wont count. What matters most is the person I turned out to be. Not naive... but wise and beautifully molded by experiences.

It doesn't matter how long I've been alone, how long I've been waiting. There's no such thing as a perfect love story. Heartaches will always be a part of loving. but I should remember - though not perfect - if that love is meant for me, it will stick with me till the end. No matter how tough it gets, no matter how long.

Far from perfect - but real.

I am just new in this site.
I am hoping to find a good match and a partner like most of you have experienced.