Finding the right person is very hard and very wrong. I always end up disappointed when I set standards and define a 'right person'.... and I thought don't rush things because somewhere and somehow God is preparing someone for me.

I would not be in a hurry to get into a relationship because I can't find love if I insist that I'm already into it. I have to find time to really understand my real feelings, to know who I really am, and what I really want in a relationship.

You're right there's no such thing as a perfect relationship but there's a compatible partnership that goes along with it.

I must try to let go and give myself a chance to grow and give myself a chance and a much needed attention. Then I will find that I have made the right decision and I made it all by myself.

* we call it love when we're too attached and think that losing the one we love will somehow make us weak and unable to face the storms of life. ---- we misunderstood; it's just that we're too much dependent to them.

* we call it love when we give our whole life to them, the wholeness of us and imagined that if they leave us, no one would accept us in our past. ---- we are mistaken; it's just insecurity.

BUT no matter what the definition is, the truth still remains.. that LOVE is not something that we can buy or beg. It is real and existing.

We can not touch it but it can feel it in our heart.
We cant not find it, but it will knock.
It can make us the happiest soul on earth, but it can also make us the most miserable person in the whole world.

:::: When I lose you, and when we think I'm the one who loved most between the two of us, you lost me more. For someday I can love someone the way that I loved you.. But, you can never be loved the way that I did..

I quite agree with you to some extent but the last statement "i can never be loved the way you loved me is pretty wrong and more of assumption than than reality.

I do not know the definition of love but all i know is that love is all about sacrifice,not selfish but understanding and enduring,being perfect is far from it but to strive for perfection is a must crave if you understand love from right perspective.

Remember that a man can leave with any woman and still cope to an extent but a woman cannot leave with any man but the one she LOVES.

Women need the love most but men want sex most 'REASON'

One more thing,men give love for sex and women give sex for love.

Do have a great time out there....................

welcome...

thank you for your comment.


I'll keep that in mind.