Well, I was seeg this guy that referred to me as his "Buddy" and NOT his lady. Yet he marked what he calls his "Territory" to keep me from seeg other men. WTF!?!

Hell, still single!!!

I totally agree with you. Underlying issues are becoming apparant.

That I can do.

Grrrr!

It's a FAMILY POOL HALL. Everyone takes there kids there...restaurant, music, pool tables...Not a big deal.

I didn't meet him there either! But I am done with him...MOVING ON!

From experience...looks can be deceiving in pictures when it comes to a man's doodle...LOL!

Now put a ruler next to it...

Indian Princess...you are so right. I am moving on. He keeps flipping on me. If he rans scared in the beginning, he will always run scared with other situations that may come up.
Thank you, you read and understood the problem. Not like others who decide to tear apart at the person that asks the question for an opinion.

First of all...I did not meet him here. Second, It is a song!

I thought we were in the "getting to know you phase" not a buddy phase. Certainly I didn't expect him to say I was a buddy. But he doesn't want me seeing other men! Well, I can see he is still sending me mixed signals. I think I am done with him.

I dumped this guy 3 wks ago because he displayed "Running Scared Syndrome" on me. I have four kids and support them myself. I make more money then this guy. All I wanted was for him to give me a chance to get to know him. But as the days went by he stopped calling and answering my calls. Until one day he called and I met up with him at the local pool hall for league nite. After league we went back to his place where he and I got into a discussion about his life and how he doesn't have time for a relationship, has a problem with my weight, doesn't want to get to know my kids down the road, didn't want to plan to spend any time with me, etc. I got up and replied,"I'll call you". I didn't speak to him for almost 3 weeks, until last Tuesday nite. A friend of mine, two my kids and myself went to the pool hall to get something to eat. He was there and I bought a beer for him and sent it over to his table. I wasn't going to be a ***** about him freaking out on me. Not too much later he came up to me saying how he was sorry and wanted another chance. Said I really like you, you are really pretty and always have been, and a really nice woman. So, I decided to give him another chance.
Fast forward to eve before NYE...We went out. We had a good time playing around and nibbling. But he started biting my neck and chest pretty hard. He left vivid marks. I told him he was biting too hard and he replied,"I'm marking my territory". I'm like ???
So, NYE we went out again. A friend of his asked who was I to him. He replied, "A buddy"...I'm like "WTF"
What Am I To Him?

I've been single for 9 years. It has been by choice.