Hi, hope everyone had a Merry Christmas. Im new to the whole online dating/meeting scene and alot of it is very discouraging. I believe you should be appealing to the opposite sex (to men) but why does it seem that you have to undermine yourself and people are so willing to do so. When the body ages and its functions change, the illness strikes,the unforseen accident comes, the money changes...life happens then what remains. After the series of one night stands you need one more because the last 5..10 just didn't do..then what? Just a thought.