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dchat, did I see correctly. One has no control in whom they love? Holy crap, then who does? You always have control! Do you walk in a bar and see some gal who appeals to you and fall in love? If she spoke to you and you got along, are you ready to set the wedding date? Of course you have control. Love is both emotional and mental. If we had no control we'd all be in love with models and the Hollywood gang and be lonely forever. If you don't know this, I feel for ya bro. A lot of hard lessons to come!  I believe you overlooked what point he was making. Have you ever been married or in a long relationship? Did you just decide one day to start having feelings for that person, or did they just develop over time??? He is merely saying that it is an unconscious decision at times. The ones who fall into love! |
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lol go figure you're a teacher! Excuse me, sir, but what does that mean??? Are you making fun of me, or is there some kind of joke that I am missing here? I don't want to jump to a conclusion on that statement, but it made me feel a little uneasy. |
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If you've discovered a way to "control" your feelings and "control" who you love, then please share your secrets with the rest of the world because last time I checked, you can't choose who you love. There's nothing mental about it. If you could make such a decision then I'm almost certain there wouldn't be any bad relationships in the world.  well maybe i'm so cold and emotionless i can.. And that is so sad! You have become "cold and emotionless"??? Is that what the world is coming to? I just couldn't imagine it that way. |
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I agree...I believe that is what makes me feel even more like a dumbass!
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To answer that question, I am a single mother of 3 and a full time teacher. I am unable to just drop everything and go out. I also live in an area that it takes an hour to get to a city. LOL! I really thought that the "online dating" scene might work. I think that it still can, just like everyone has said, I have to be careful. Thank you for your reply!
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I would love to! I would teach men and women. LOL! They both need to be taught how to treat people.
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When you talk night and day for hours at a time, and you can't wait to log onto the computer to see what sweet messages they have left you....you fall and you fall hard. I tend to be a little co-dependent, and my downfall was looking so quickly after a 6 year marriage. I thought that I could move on just as rapidly as my ex-husband. I know you are a man and might not understand that.
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I guess I tend to be too gullable. That or I am a big dreamer. LOL! I wish I could be hard, but that is just not me. I am caring and passionate, and the men who act like they are too, I fall for it. I am an asshole magnet. LOL!
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I agree! Thank you so much everyone! I will keep trying because I know that I deserve someone that will treat me right. I appreciate everyone so much. We all need some kind of software that detects liars. LOL!
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oklahoma
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I do take my rude comment back. There are a lot of men in OK that are good, just where do we find them????
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Thank you, dchatwin! I appreciate your reply. I don't really expect too many men to reply to this. I applaud you. I do realize that this is not one-sided. Men have been done the same way. It is totally ridiculous! Shame on people that do that!
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Ahhh...it sucks! I am a caring and considerate person. Why can't men be that way too??? I am know exactly how you feel! I really just want to cuss him out and say really bad things, but it is pointless. They do not care! I just can't make myself talk to someone, tell lies about my life, and lie about my feelings. I am a REAL person!!!! I feel so bad for the women that have been done the same way I have.
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With this being an online dating site, How do we know when someone is being honest and real? I am so lost! This is the whole reason I am divorced. My husband was leading a double life. There are too many lies to handle!!!!!!
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I met this guy on here, he was so sweet and wonderful. We talked for over a month, and he even told me that he loved me. Today, I receive a message from him and he tells me that he has been in a relationship and for me not to contact or write him anymore. This experience has really ruined me! We talked night and day on the phone, he had even planned to come see me and meet my family. Am I just being a baby about this situation or am I entitled to really hurt??? It has really upset me....What do I do???
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oklahoma
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Really...I also believe that most men today, are all about looks. Especially, a man from OK.
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Topic:
Patch Adams
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Patch Adams is one of my favorite movies. I can put this movie on if I need a good laugh and a good cry. Robin Williams did an awesome job, as asual. I love the movie so much that I have it on DVD and on VHS, just in case.
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Topic:
Name Game
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Evalyn
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Topic:
oklahoma
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Well put, Datboi!
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Topic:
Name Game
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Enid
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Topic:
Give an honest opinion
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U have a beautiful smile and perfect hair.
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