Are you freakin' kidding me?!!!! A mother and daughter of any age with the same guy is just too weird to even fathom. I wonder if the mother is using the daughter to get laid?

Kinda turns my stomach to think about it!

Of course it is. They have to be two mature adults who appreciate the experience for what it is. Be it mind blowing sex, a means to fulfill a need, simple curiosity, etc.

Why would sex be the deal breaker in a friendship?

Some folks are uncomfortable hearing about a loss. If I go on a date, he will already know that I am a widow. If he wants to know more about the situation, then he's welcome to ask and I'll certainly be open with my answers. But making it a topic for discussion seems unhealthy since I'm moving past the loss and trying to gain a life again.

Memories are great. I have many good memories of my own. But hanging onto the past will surely be an obstacle toward grasping a hold on the future.

Opportunity. There is security in knowing you have options. JMO

I decided to give this site a try to see what's happening in the "neighborhood". I've been single for 2 1/2 years and would like to meet a man I can spend some time with. Have some good times and laughs and see what happens.