Well here is the truth both men and women tend to act like they want someone who is an *** hole or ***** just because they don't think there are nice guys and they think nice guys or gals won't like them its all a matter of what will get them the attention.no its not too soon to date you need to be happy to and if that means being with a girl who loves you then that's what should happen. And about the children thing its all a matter of personal choice some women don't want the responsibility some women don't want to deal with the ex and some women couldn't be more happy being in that childs life.

Personally I want a nice guy who loves me for me and he can't love me for me if he doesn't know who me is. About the kids if I am in love with the man I will be there for him and his kids. I love children and would take on anything for the man and the kids.


Hope my answer helps you figure it all out