whats a phone?????

LOL... Lex you're killin me again!!

too funny!!

And Welcome Stephie, too!!



Wize

Welcome, LadyDiva!!

Best wishes on your search!!

Wize

I sent my ex an invite to this site... she told me she does fine on her own... LOL... I guess so, she just had another baby!

Safe to say, she'll probably never read this!!

The only restrictions I use is my personal judgement after I interact with someone. I am always open to talk to anyone wanting to talk to me. I think I can weed the chickweed out of my turf.

I fortunately haven't had the experience of the psychos or fatal attractions that may be present on the site.

So, if anyone wants to share life stories, experiences, or wants to get to know me... just send me am email. That's extended to the guys. Nothing wrong with male bonding, but Im NOT doing male Bondage, ok??!!! lol

~Not so Wise, Wize

Saturn EWWWW... roflmao

Welcome, Sweetie!!

Welcome, Ouchie, Shark & Kirota!!

Welcome, Jennifer... Hope you enjoy JSH

I haven't read anything obtuse or colorfully metaphoric from you. But if ya leave, I wish you well WS!

Agreed, Mark!

You have great insight!

Mines broken too, but I figure if I can help fix the others, I'll be able to fix mine!!

I hear that Beachdog!!

Thanks LuckyMe.

I learned two big things from it... 1) I know my parental rights in WA, and 2) if you raise your kids right, they'll be honest, disciplined, and loving towards eachother and others. they were brought into this world without a say, and it is our job as parents to raise then to respect everyone.

I am blessed to have two wonderful young men. My ex and I still raise them together (joint custody) so they constantly have two parents around them. I think its unfortuante for the single parents, but kudos for them because its a big responsibilty doing it solo!!

Oh... how I love to ramble... lol

Welcome to the jungle... oh wait, the JSH!!

I'll send ya an email QB, ouy gonna relpy?

Hugs!!

Mark... very well stated!! I agree with you.

Drew,
Also keep in mind that there are laws that make it hard to disciple children in the public arena. I'm not saying we beat our kids, it just with you being in the public eye, its hard to do anything for fear of what someone will say or do.
Example:

I was at a Wal-Mart grocery shopping. We, I was married at the time, in there about an hour (big store.. hehe), and for the last 1/2 hour, my oldest son was pushing, hitting, kicking his younger brother. We were almost done when he pushed me too far... he knocked his brother into some shelves with jars on them hurting the his borther. So I took him over my knee and spanked him open handed on the toosh 2 times.
Out of nowhere so A-hole came up with a phone talking to a 911 operator saying he was witnessing me beating my kids. They another came up saying I was doing the same thing. Then the guy got in my face pushing me around a bit, telling the operator I was trying to hit him. So, I just wanted to defuse the situation, I started heading to the checkout. The whole time this Jack-A** was on my ars. Then he did the unthinkable...
with my youngest son in my wife's arms, he pushed her. I didn't get a chance to do anything cuz she was on his right in his face. Finally the asst mgr showed up, but he wouldn't keep this guy off us. So with over $300 in groceries in the cart, I felt the best thing to do was me go outside with the boys and wait for the police, and her stay in the checkout. Now can you imagine all the glares we were getting, and rude comments we were getting... now multiply it by 10. It was horrible... so then while I was outside, the jerk-off started back up on my wife called her some very colorful metaphors and the asst mgr wasn't doing a thing about it. So, I told her to leave the groceries and come wait with me outside.
Once the officer arrived, we met him at the door and let him take the oldest away to talk with him. Then he came back and talked to me. Fortunately, my son doesn't lie and our stories were similar. I was within my rights to open-handedly spank my son. I was also fortunate that the true only witness to the scene was a personal friend of the officer saying he was the only one on the isle during the spanking. So, once the officer talked to the subject that called, he found that the guy was actually on drugs and was drunk. I was released without incident and the poor bastage that made the call was booked into jail.
I later wrote a note to the Regional office of Wal-mart regarding the improper actions of the asst mgr. When we when back to the store about a month later, the asst mgr was fired the day after my incident.
Ok, to the parents out there... I don't spank hard and I haven't needed to do so in years. It was a moment much needed so my son knows who is in charge and knows I won't tolerate his type of action.
Anyway, it was great satisfaction knowing that the two that tried to crumble me, got crumbled themselves.

I think the parents needed to take control of their child but sometimes its hard... sorry you had to experience the incident!

Welcome to JSH, Smiley!! There are alot of great peeps here to chat with!!