I'm trying to figure out what I could be writing to somebody for them to call it a great message.

Tomorrow first thing in the morning

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Joking that's not what I meant

Well. I asked because I'm trying to date for marriage. So for a couple of times I'm getting involved with married women unknowingly which I discover while already in the relationship. But when I try to get answers from them at times I find the reasons rediculous. They have everything but you find they still looking for men. I have been away for a long time from my social circles that's why it also took me up to this time before I married. I had never thought that ladies can cheat just for sexual dissatisfaction. My thoughts.

Why do married people cheat or have other sexual partners besides their spouses? Is it normal or healthy?