thanks to all who gave some serious advice here

why would you ask if he is a sex offender

why does it sound familiar?

Im looking for a little advice on whether or not to believe this guy.
I started talking to him online in August. He wanted to meet and I kept putting it off finally in Dec I met him and then I stopped talking to him, told him something didn't feel right,and then I started talking to him again becuase he kept persuing me,and he mentioned he wanted more and I said I wanted to wait and he said he was willing to wait as long as it took.Now finally I want more and he seems to be backing off, calling me less and texting me less for the past few weeks and I havent seen him in two weeks. I texted him the other day and said is everything ok you've been differnt the past few weeks. He responded with yes I have just been busy doing work on my house and with work stuff and I am giving you your time and your space like you like.My gut is telling me that he's met someone else and I am not sure whether or not to believe him.But if he is seeing someone I cant be mad becuase of what ive done to him not being sure before but I did atleast be honest with him and tell him not let him sit and wonder.