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Suzanne
Yes, you can bring a battery charger for your laptop. |
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Married people had a big red M on their forehead which wouldn't wash off until their divorce was finalised.
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No, Suzanne, no-one has got it yet; I think they were all waiting for you. LOL
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I Was Just Thinking....
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Yes, this will be a tough Christmas for me too. Only the 2nd without my husband. Last year I had our son with me, but this year, I won't see any of my family. But it only lasts 24hrs, right?
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Is this a 'red flag'?
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I would be a little bit cautious too. Whenever I see a 'never been married' I always wonder what's wrong with them. LOL. But it could be that he's never been married but has been in a long-term relationship.
But there again, there's the other argument of maybe better to go with someone who's never been married than with someone who's been married before, maybe more than once who may have negative baggage. Really, I wouldn't dismiss anyone because of their 'status'. If you find him interesting give him a chance, and find out his story and make your judgement based on that, and how you feel about him once you know him better. |
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Favorite Hat
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Yeah, I have a favorite hat. Now all I need is a nice sexy cowboy to put under it.
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Favourite accents
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francais. Le français est la langue la plus sensuelle dans le monde. {{{Kat}}}  
Absolument, mon ami! En effet oh!bien,la dame juste,l'ami et le collègue amour de poète.beaucoup de,Steven {{{Denny}}} 
Salut Steven! Je ne savais pas que tu parles le francais aussi. Tu l'apprenais au college? C'etait vraiment une surprise. Je pensais que j'etais la seule ici de parler en francais. C'est bon, hein? On ne sait pas ce qu'on dit. MDR. Ton amie de la poesie. |
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Favourite accents
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francais. Le français est la langue la plus sensuelle dans le monde. {{{Kat}}}
Absolument, mon ami! |
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Topic:
The Entity
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Thanks Cy. But don't worry, I'm not 'the entity'; the fear was never mine!
The deeper meaning of 'the enemy' is 'the truth'. |
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None. They're cats. They own me.
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The Entity
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The entity runs,
hackles raised, bewildered, alarmed The enemy ever closer now, Breathing at its neck, snapping at its heels CLOSING IN A feeling of foreboding Limpid eyes filled with panic Paralysis setting in It turns to face its captor Ensnared, enmeshed in a web Which grows ever tighter A web of its own design Finally, the realization That it’s too late to run Too late to hide Lost in a labrynth borne of its own misjudgements. Slowly asphyxiating, Knowing the end is near. There’s no escape. |
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Happy Birthday Eileen
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Happy Birthday Eileen!
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Topic:
The Words Unspoken
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Thank you everyone. Sad words, even sadder memories, but therapeutic to put pen to paper and let the feelings out.
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Happy Birthday rara777
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Happy Birthday RaRa
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Topic:
The Words Unspoken
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Thank you kc and Cy.
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Topic:
The Words Unspoken
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The Words Unspoken
I watch your fitful sleep. Agitation clear as the lines on your face; Troubled eyes now circled with grey; feint tinges of blue now edging your lips as you continue to fight for each breath you take. No respite from the pain, from the spasms that continually wrack your tired and wasted body. You're fidgeting now, fretful. Your soft moan almost drowned out by the constant electronic cacophony; Machines that monitor the poison as it flows through your veins; A venom strong enough to kill slowly brutalizing your body, crushing your spirit, destroying your mind, annihilating your will to go on. You open your eyes now. Disoriented, bewildered, distraught; Your mind a fog, a haze of morphine. A mind that knows not night nor day. Yet, you look at me, focused at last. In a world of pain, despair and misery you recognise that unbreakable bond that will never fail you; a hand that will hold yours through the darkest of times. Agitated, you reach for my hand; grasping, clutching, holding on with the last of your strength. I see the blind fury in your eyes; agonized, as you tell me you love me. But, don't worry sweet, I understood. I knew this would be the last time, our final goodbye. I've kept my silent promise never to forget those three words I must remember for a lifetime; The words unspoken but understood by both. For Roy (28 Feb 1956 - 23 Jun 2009) |
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Not as stupid as I look.
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I met a guy from another dating site about 6 months ago. After our 'meet' he asked me on a 2nd date. Although we found plenty to talk about, I declined as there was absolutely no chemistry on my part. We continued to talk on line as we were both pretty lonely at the time, and we do have a very similar sense of humour. We'd occasionally get together for lunch but I always made it clear that we did this as 'friends' and at no point did we ever 'date' each other. We've been chatting on-line for about 6 months. During this time I had dates with a few other guys, which he was fully aware of, and I've had one relationship which lasted a few months. He contacted me last week and asked if I felt like going out to get some sushi. I said I would but was busy at the time, so said I'd contact him this week and we'd sort something out. This week has been pretty much a disaster; I've had lots of problems I've had to deal with, so didn't manage to get together with him. I sent him this message: 'Hey! Sorry I didn't get back to you this week. Things didn't go according to plan. Want to do sushi next week? I can make any day except Friday. Get back to me when you can.' And this is the reply I received: 'Hey. Not a problem Denni, I'm used to you just tossing me to the curb and forgetting about me. Just a way of life. I'm leaving for Ga next wednesday and may have company up to then. I don't know. Nobody ever treats me with any kind of respect. If somebody has time and is bored out of their skull, they may spend some time with me. I've gotten used to it.' How would you respond to this? Denny, it would depend on what I wanted from the relationship. He just gave you an easy out if u want it... You friend zoned him- that's prolly not what he wanted, and it sounds like there's been some resentment slowly building up, and he over reacted. But unless u have repeatedly broken off get togethers with him his response shows some immaturity - because he hasn't taken steps to deal with the resentment B4- instead just "snapping" basically What was it I said about men and women not being able to be platonic friends on that thread last month  This is a perfect example
Thanks SweetestGirl Yes, I posted in that thread too saying basically the same thing; this is the relationship I had in mind when I made my comments! His comment about me 'continually kicking him to the kerb' doesn't mean I've repeatedly broken off get-togethers. He's referring to every time I go on a date with someone new - despite the fact that I've always made it clear we're not dating. I've decided not to reply to his message. I know he's been badly hurt in the past, hence his 'rejection issues', and I don't want to 'kick him in the teeth'. If he wants to talk to me again he knows how to contact me, if he doesn't, then it would probably be better for him in the long run. |
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First; Who was paying for all these friendly lunches? Second; Did the thought occur to you that he may have been talking sarcastically? We used to take it in turn to buy lunch. And, no it wasn't sarcasm. It's not the first time he's reacted in this way. |
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Hi, interesting. You call him "Friend". Yes he's being an idiot, and insecure and trying to make you feel bad. He's lonely, Do you remember the feeling? Do you like to be kicked in the teeth from your friends. Just emphasize the fact you weren't trying to give him hope for anything relationally and you don't want to make him feel bad so maybe it's better to part ways. Be the bigger person, you did spend time with him? Tell the truth and be direct, but nice. Thats a FRIEND or just go your way since you may not be.??? Thank you. Yes I remember that feeling only too well, and I'm not going to get any 'kick' out of hurting him more. That's why I've held off on replying to him. I need some time so that I can be 'nice' and not reply in an angry manner. |
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