It's too early for birds...

Satellite phone with solar charging, a firestarting kit, and a big knife

I can only speak to what my current lady wants, and to some extent it also applies to the women in my past.

She wants to feel loved. She does not want feel lonely.

She wants someone who believes in her.

Someone who listens to her, and doesn't just pretend.

Someone who will make her feel safe.

A man who she can confide in.

Someone who makes her feel like a teenage girl again, smitten and reciprocated for the first time. Playful, happy, and yet shy.

A man who will pursue her dreams WITH her, just as she will pursue his dreams. Someone who will make (at least some of) those dreams into reality.

She wants to feel respected, admired, and cherished for what she is now and will be in the future.

She does not want a man who lives in the past, whether it be hers or his own.

She wants a man who will take care of his health, for both her sake and his own.

She wants to be his ONLY woman.

She wants a man who values family, who is sincere, and who will go the extra distance to prove these things to her.

A man she can respect and admire because he earns them along with her trust.



These are a few of the things, but many revolve around the same central theme.

Having lunch while listening to Spotify

Damn....I wish you hadn't done that.

Hey, you look just like my mom!

Is your name....Spanky?

Not sure how to explain.

I got rebuked for not eating lunch at noon. She wants to be sure I keep myself healthy. She was upset that I'm not doing that. (Actually, I am quite healthy, but not fit, according to the doctors.) I don't like her to be upset or worry. So I begin making lunch....but I have to cook from scratch to do so.

Point is, she wants to see proof that I'm eating healthy. She shows me every meal she has, to give me proof she is taking care of herself.

She's right. I've been slacking. In fact, I haven't been eating right in months now. I really need to get back to that.

So...I feel a bit ashamed but also excited, I guess?

Because she's trying to help me return to my original and preferred eating habits.

(She is not a member at Mingle. No worries.)

NTS - She is always right. No, really. She actually is.

I used to be an avid RPG gamer, but I gave it up because apparently nobody knows how to work as a team anymore.

Taking a break from job hunting, and waiting for a video call

Yo

Bae

A'ight


In that particular order.

But there is one word that tops them all, and it begins with N. I bet someone can guess what that is.

NTS - Ice cream is not a proper substitute for a meal.

What? Still no winner?

What am I going to do with this chicken dinner?

Letting KitKat know that it is now officially Sunday.

I try to play chess at least one day each week.

Not only that, but sometimes the best things just happen. Almost by accident or coincidence.

Having a happy and/or positive approach can actually make this more likely to happen. It's like the Law of Attraction in the book, The Secret. Positivity attracts positive opportunities and results.

A plane ticket, a reservation, and a fast forward button for the calendar

Napping