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Sun 08/22/10 12:23 AM
Any fun-loving firearm fanatic's out there living in Montana? Being from tight-*** Canada, where they outlaw EVERYTHING you can possibly think of, I need some answeres from someone there that know's the laws.

at the end of this week, I will be down in the US for 10 days. What are the chances of while there, getting a hold of a firearm? Can this be done? What is required there to purchase a handgun? I have all my Canadian License's ect, but what's the deal there, and what is required to purchase one?

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Fri 08/20/10 09:05 AM


" ... ook guys i know about karma and i know this has no happy ending for anyone. I know it is wrong because she i being lied to. Lies hurt the most when from someone you love. I know I cant be the first nor will i be the last for this guy. I truly wish i didn't find him so likable. Yes i know you all think he is a slim ball but you really shouldn't judge people that have different ways of dealing with things than you do as the scum of the earth. I know it hurts to be lied to, but the truth now would be worse than the lie. I am sure it will end soon enough and yes i would hope before any damage done to his family. The last thing i want is for him to leave his wife. I do not wish that on anyone. I have been selfish, yes, but life is short and I chose to do what made me happy. If that takes me to hell so be it. I'm sure i will see more than one of you there too.

My goodness some uptight people in this forum. I knew this would get some very opinionated responses. Go ahead let it rip. ... "



Bebbygrrl, you're not getting any sympathy 'cuz you DON'T DESERVE ANY. Is that clear enough? You CHOSE to screw a MARRIED guy KNOWING he was MARRIED. If you get 'hurt' now, no one cares. Period. The fact that you AND he are also going to involve INNOCENT PEOPLE - his family - really sucks. No one wants to hear any more of your selfish little rant about non-existent 'love' or that 'life is short' crap. Take it outside. No one cares - you did this to yourself and you refuse to listen to anyone who dares to disagree with you. Sympathy ... ? Ha. I'm waiting for you to discover HE's cheating on YOU ... and him to find out you're doing the same to him ... it'll be SO poetic ...


Wow Kings_Knight... if this thread upsets you so much, maybe just don't read it? Don't think you need to be mean? Certainly give your opinion by all means! or say "you don't care"... but no need to speak for everyone else by saying "No one Cares". Also... it really sucks the kids are caught in the middle, however, do you know this guys wife? You talk about her like she's soooo innocent? how do you know that? How do you know SHE'S not out screwing everything that moves? Point is, if a marrige is at this point, it's NOT ONE SIDED! Is it wrong? absolutely. But no need to basically tell her to just go screw off? Is that how people have helped you in the past when YOU made mistakes? or... you have just never made any mistakes?

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Fri 08/20/10 08:34 AM
Wow.... lots of opinions all over the board here. The one thing I agree with for sure.. NO HAPPY ENDINGS!

The reason he is even cheating on his wife is because there is something wrong with there relationship. NOT JUST HIS FAULT. It takes TWO!! Never the less, he's not happy and is looking for something to fill that! Does he want out of the marriage? Maybe? Will he leave his wife? always a chance, but VERY, VERY slim. And if he ever did, and you two were still carring on with your relationship, then the chances of you two working out is next to none!! Starting a relationship on those terms, those conditions... ya... not looking good!

As hard as it is, you need to suck it up, and cut all contact! I will tell you right now.. HE WON'T. He's getting the best of both worlds. And don't try to come accross as "feeling bad for the wife" or one of you two women sharing this guy does not bother you. If you feel that stongly about him, then why would it be ok? And if he tells you there relationship is soooo bad that they don't even have "sex" anymore.... Personally, I would call ********!

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Fri 08/20/10 08:13 AM

How long after meeting someone you are interest in, should you pour your heart out about the feelings you have for them?


I would wait until long after the initial infactuation stage and heavy hot sex and attraction stage is over. Then your not doing just irrational ramblings. You do have to remember that you don't have a clue who the real "her" is either. If you ever do figure that out, it's usually not until LONG into a relationship.

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Fri 08/20/10 07:59 AM
Or..... you could leave the best friends Ex alone, seeing as that line should not have been crossed to begin with. Then call the ex, and maybe "modify" your flirting agreement to full out doing other people, and then there's no issue! lol But make sure you call her and modify your agreement first, just so your not "cheating" lol

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Thu 08/19/10 02:28 PM
no, not a chance. may as well be roomates then.

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Thu 08/19/10 02:23 PM
I agree. 1. Your a guy. 2. your a 19 yr old guy. You want to tap her! First primal instinct!

also agree... if you allowed yourself to be in this situation, then there is something out of place with the current gf Situation. If it was all perfect... you would not have allowed yourself to start to txt her, and get close enough to develop those feelings.

Finally... ya...there is the whole "guy code" thing that I personally would not cross!

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Tue 08/17/10 08:20 AM
Welcome:) Seems to be lots of action on here since I joined. Just stick around the msg boards a while, and see for yourself? Give it a chance:)

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Tue 08/17/10 08:10 AM
Of course.. there is also different levels/types of love. As mentioned... love for family, kids ect. and then relationship love. I see it as the following.....

I love my ex-wife... however, I am not "in love" with her. So even though I think she hates me, I still love her enough to want to see her happy, and see her taken care of.

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Mon 08/16/10 10:54 AM
Every day of your life, there are opportunities, and doors that open for you. You just have to be looking for them!

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Mon 08/16/10 10:32 AM

There are those people that when you are around, you just KNOW they are smart...then there are people that when you are around they have to TELL you they are smart.

It is a different way of it coming across, if it comes across as arrogant, not many women I know are attracted to arrogance....but they do appreciate intelligence. i.e, if they ask you a question you can answer more than 'uh huh' or 'yeppers'.

My sister dated a guy, he thought he was the smartest thing around, and he did know a lot, but he was also an arrogant a$$hole. He say something about history or some other type of formal schooling to my litte brother(who was fixing this guy's car at the time) and when my brother said " didn't know that" he would respond always with "Wow, I can't believe you didn't know that" finally my brother handed him his the parts of the transmission he was working on and told him to put it together....basically Mr. Arrogant said "I don't know how to do that" and my brother again responded with "I can't believe you don't know how to do all...every guy should know cars blah blah blah" just to teach this Mr. Arrogant a lesson.

Now after my example, intelligence varies, formal education varies, skills vary, but the important thing imho is having the wisdom to know how to use what your strengths are, without making people feel stupid. No one likes to feel stupid, trust me people realize if someone is smarter than them...they just don't want to be TOLD someone is smarter than them.




Now this I totally agree with! Very well put. And yes... any of the women I know HATE arrogance.

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Mon 08/16/10 10:18 AM
As was previouly stated.. just make sure there on YOUR side, and don't turn on you. So .... Maybe have some kind of contingency plan lined up in case they do.

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Fri 08/13/10 02:18 PM
Well thank you to all of you:) I'm looking forward to just meeting a whole lot of great people from all over. This is the only... and the first site like this I have ever tried, and so far looks like it's been a good choice. Reading though some of the other discussions, I read quite a bit about how happy people are with this particular site, and all the good people and freindships they have made here.

So thanks again, and I look forward to getting to know all of you:)

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Fri 08/13/10 09:46 AM
Edited by dbledge on Fri 08/13/10 09:46 AM
well Oceanbluze... as you can see by my huge number of posts... I am a complete newby here! .... Actually... to this whole internet thing to be honest. I'm just gonna prob. end up using this message boards to have fun, meet some new fun people, and develop some cool freindships from all over the country:)

Just enjoy it, and be careful. :)

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Fri 08/13/10 09:15 AM
well... I would say to you, just be straight forward. If you want to meet up with these guys, then just tell them that. Let them know you want to meet in person, and ask them straigh up if they will do that, and if so, when and where? If they keep putting you off, or "flaking out", then in MY opinion... there is something up, and I would just move on, and not let it get you all confused and flustered.

Besides..... now would a guy REALLY just play games?? naaaaaa hahahah.

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Fri 08/13/10 08:07 AM
The forums, the workplace, does not matter. It is all what you persoanlly make out of it. There will always be the people out there that like, and thrive on Drama, and BS, however, you choose to let it get to you and you choose how you will react to it. Just as all the people here I have been seeing that seem like exceptionally great people.

Enjoy life, have fun, and treat EVERYONE with respect. Each and every individual here has something, some quality, or some knowledge that can add to anothers life, and make it more enjoyable, and just a little better:)

ok.... well Post #....2 for me?? or 3? ya... should be fun:)

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Thu 08/12/10 02:03 PM
Hello to all. This is very different for me, and I wanted to give it a try. I have heard about the sites for years, but never once thought of trying them out to meet some new people. So, lets see what this ride is all about:)