Seriously?? WTF?? If your really done with her be a man and step up and get the divorce!! (Thought that would be pretty obvious!!) If your not willing to take that final step and are content with being separated only it shows you still have some sort of reason for that decision. Deep down do you still have feelings for her? Get some closure both for yourself and your future happiness.....until you do you will not move forward....Being a woman I can say most women don't want or wont hook up with a guy who still is legally tied to the ex.....cuz it shows you still obviously have more than legal ties to her....

Seriously?? WTF?? If your really done with her be a man and step up and get the divorce!! (Thought that would be pretty obvious!!) If your not willing to take that final step and are content with being separated only it shows you still have some sort of reason for that decision. Deep down do you still have feelings for her? Get some closure both for yourself and your future happiness.....until you do you will not move forward....Being a woman I can say most women don't want or wont hook up with a guy who still is legally tied to the ex.....cuz it shows you still obviously have more than legal ties to her....