I think it's what's in your heart, and what you're looking for in a relationship. I don't think age plays that much in how we respect and love each other. I think if two people love each other they can get past the age difference. everyone is going to have different thoughts on this, it depends on what kind of relationship we are used to being in. I could see myself with a woman Within 3 years older than I am, but I could also see myself with a woman 15 years younger than I am. I guess it's up to each individual relationship and how the issue is worked out.