Hi Bart,

I know for a fact that when a woman loves you, she truly loves you she will love you the way you are. I am disabled with a nasty back problem.It limits what I can do. However, thanks to a relatively new implant procedure I am able to live a pretty much normal life. When I tell women about my back problem most take an interest. A few move on. I have been married, divorced, engaged, blah blah blah and found that true love is blind to imperfections. And it works both ways!

You are not alone unless you focus on your disability. If you think about it all of us are disabled to some degree. I am blessed with the health I have and realize it when I see someone worse off than me. And that person often has a partner of the opposite sex with them.

Keep smiling! :0)

I found a woman on a different site. We kept it going for quite a while even tho she lived over a thousand miles from me. It did help that she is retired from an airline and she could come to visit me for the price of a dinner.

If you believe it will work and want it to work then you will find a way. Otherwise, you are probably wasting both your time as well as theirs.

I believe there is a part of life that divorced people experienced that single people have yet to live. My profile says divorced.