Topic: don't seem to read your profile?
Danashae's photo
Sun 09/09/07 09:59 PM
Haha, anyone ever notice that some people just seem to message you regardless of what you write? It's just like... they don't read it at all, and have nothing in common with you, and just message you with something generic and bland. Come on, does that actually work? :-P

flowerforyou Gotta stick out in the crowd with this kinda stuff, am I right? Especially around here in New York, we have so many single people running around! It's hard to choose.

Puffins1958's photo
Sun 09/09/07 10:03 PM
Dana...

Of course that's true. You wonder what they are thinking about? Maybe they feel as if they want to get to know you better. I'm sorry, I'm sure this doesn't help...men can be very confusing at times

flowerforyou flowerforyou

USmale47374's photo
Sun 09/09/07 10:06 PM
Yes, I've noticed. It's especially bad when they barely even speak English. The whole thing can be quite discouraging.

cvaughn34's photo
Sun 09/09/07 10:07 PM
yep, men can be very confusing. To be honest, sometimes I confuse myself. I understand what you mean though. It does help to actually read what the woman has written before you write her.

caldermobilefan's photo
Sun 09/09/07 10:10 PM
It is an unfortunate truth that one must share similar interests with a sig. other unless they plan on hating one another :)

anitame's photo
Sun 09/09/07 10:19 PM
oohh ,,,,when you keep reading those same words all over,wouldnt you give up,,and just write??????to say hi:))...lol

sheepdog's photo
Sun 09/09/07 10:32 PM
if & when i look at someones' profile i leave a short messege saying i took a look & leave a hello. don't comment on what i read in their profile. if they respond back then the conversation starts. if they don't... oh well.

Danashae's photo
Sun 09/09/07 10:33 PM
I think my profile is pretty unique. Haha, I was kinda specific in what I was looking for. A simple, "hi, you're pretty, wanna go out for dinner?" just doesn't cut it for me...

anitame's photo
Sun 09/09/07 10:33 PM
there you go:))),,,,lol
i guess i'm not alone here:))

sheepdog's photo
Sun 09/09/07 10:35 PM
but if i've been talkin in the forums with folks i occassionally drop in say hi or make a comment bout this or that in their profile.

but thats only when i think they wouldn't mind.

Danashae's photo
Sun 09/09/07 10:36 PM
I'm a pretty odd person. So I guess normalcy doesn't interest me much. laugh I'm looking for someone as out of my mind as I am.

But of course, that's just me. flowerforyou Not everyone can be a lovable whack job like myself. I'm the oddball, I think, not everyone else.

anitame's photo
Sun 09/09/07 10:44 PM
dana,,,,,,lol
but its a good start:)),,,no?
i wasnt reading yours...lol
yours could be the best ever,,,:))
i was talking about MALE:)))profiles:))..lol
im not saying they are bad,,,no no no,,,just,,,, i got tired of the down to earth,,honest,,loving,,,,what else ,,,i dont know:)

anitame's photo
Sun 09/09/07 10:45 PM
LOL,,Dana,you are unique:))

dorca81's photo
Sun 09/09/07 11:01 PM
keep them simple:))
LOL...

caiternoodle's photo
Sun 09/09/07 11:02 PM
hahahah

I havent ever had a single message sent to me.. ive been here over a month I believe.

John1992's photo
Mon 09/10/07 12:07 AM

My 2 cents

Hmm read over the profile in question. It describes a tall order but in the end it says not to be afraid of messaging which leads me to conclude that some points in the message may very well be negotiable.

One point in the profile which would exclude my doing a message for possible contact is the person dosen't want kids. Wanting a compatable wife and children is the highest goal in my life second only to serving the Lord. So see not everyone will or is messaging.