I just re-joined and it seems as if most of the members haven't been active in at least 1 month or more. Also when I try to click on certain button links while navigating around the website (below) the website trys to make me upgrade.Very annoying because it does this over and over and thats my guess why people have left.I was on this site a while back and remembered it to be alot of fun but I guess times have changed. If anyone has any clues or answers let me know.Here is one the places on the site that does this below. Its at the top left under "account home"

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