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Mon 01/26/09 12:00 AM
No I don't walk on egg shells, but if I know that there is something that might upset them, I am not going to deliberately do that.

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Sun 01/25/09 11:56 PM
So does she want him to come and why if she does?

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Sun 01/25/09 11:45 PM
With my kids and boyfriend.

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Sun 01/25/09 11:44 PM
Loved of course!

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Sun 01/25/09 11:43 PM

Whats Love Got To Do With It.....

Do you treat that person special, because you're in love with them, or because that is the way you are? (Loving by nature)



I think it's a little bit of both. Some people are just like that, they treat everyone special, but when they are in love, it goes even farther!
I am experiencing that with my boyfriend now. He has a heart for teenagers, and he loves his group like they were his own kids, yet he treats me like a queen. We have just started dating, so I won't say that either of us are in love yet, but for me, it won't take much longer, just because he does treat me so special. He is even teaching the boys in the group how to treat women with respect and that they are to be handled with love and care!

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Sun 01/25/09 11:38 PM
Welcome to the family!

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Fri 01/23/09 02:46 AM



"Whatever"? That's the best you can retort with? Tell me I'm wrong! Don't give me any crap about being "sensitive" to your feelings. Tell me who YOU would rather look at -- the slim, slender, fit guy, or the fat guy? And I don't want to hear any of that bull about "it's what's inside that counts," either.


I hate to tell you, but my boyfriend is on the heavy side, but he treats me better than any man ever has, and that is all that matters.


good see you found someone that doesnt care about health and excercise good for you! So why the pouting? Why make the person that does work hard to stay in shape the bad guy/girl? because your jealous and its easier to call us shallow than look yourself in the mirror and call yourself fat. just be happy with who you are and stop making other people out to be shallow cause of your faults. this is what im saying, not that heavy people should give a damn what i think but why do fit people have to be shallow when we look for common interests? its about you sweetheart not me thats why and stop laying the guilt trip!



I don't recall ever saying I was unhealthy, ever. Don't make assumptions about what you know nothing. I wasn't pouting, just stating facts. And I have nothing to be jealous of, have never been, nor ever will be that way. That's just ridiculous. If there is any guilt it's all on you. It must be hitting pretty close to home to get you all riled up about a simple statement. There is some things I would change about my body, but not much. I won't let any man make me feel unworthy about anything. You seem to have made the wrong assumptions about what I was saying and why I was saying.

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Fri 01/23/09 02:38 AM

That isn't what I asked.



I look at what interests me and right now that happens to be him.

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Fri 01/23/09 02:35 AM
I am doing fine, just trying to stay awake here at work! Upset at a couple guys over on the general forum. There is a post about womens weight, and they are being jerks.

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Fri 01/23/09 02:33 AM

"Whatever"? That's the best you can retort with? Tell me I'm wrong! Don't give me any crap about being "sensitive" to your feelings. Tell me who YOU would rather look at -- the slim, slender, fit guy, or the fat guy? And I don't want to hear any of that bull about "it's what's inside that counts," either.


I hate to tell you, but my boyfriend is on the heavy side, but he treats me better than any man ever has, and that is all that matters.

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Fri 01/23/09 02:30 AM
Hello everyone!

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Fri 01/23/09 02:26 AM
Sure, why wouldn't I. I don't necessarily care to be there by myself, but oh well.

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Fri 01/23/09 02:25 AM

it takes work to stay in shape, the older you get the harder it gets. stop whining and get excercising. I am sure when men stop bathing women find this unattractive lets be realistic here you dont get to 200 pounds overnight! This is really about people in general they make excuses for themselves and try to make there problem someone elses. so either rock that body or get on the treadmill but whining about it is whoa



Between you and Mr. Music no wonder women feel the way they do, since you are so sensitive about our feelings! You two need to grow up.

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Fri 01/23/09 02:23 AM


How can we not be a little sensitive? I was 105 when I got married. By the time the 2 baby came I had put on about 50 lbs. He didn't seem interested in me anymore. He would look at real skinny women and say they need meat on their bones, yet he married me. After the 3rd baby, it got to the point that I was lucky if we had sex twice a year. I wear a size 12, a little overweight, but average. Men don't look at women with my shape and whistle or cat call, etc. So how do you think we are supposed to feel about our weight, when things like that go on.


Oh, stow it, Flo! Spare me. You know damn well as I do that if guys whistled and cat-called at you, you be offended as hell and scream harrassment. Damned if we do, and damned if we don't.



Whatever. And you are totally missing the point.

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Fri 01/23/09 02:19 AM

Did you just quote yourself? lol. Guys aren't afraid of commitment. They're are afraid that the girl won't keep it herself. Almost every guy has been burned when they did the right thing and that's why you think they're afraid.



Yes, but almost everyone women has been burned as well. When are we all going to learn, that everyone is an individual, and have the potential to hurt us or make us happy, the same way we have the potential to hurt someone else or make them happy.
It takes two to make a relationship work. When both aren't working at it, it dies.

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Fri 01/23/09 02:17 AM
How can we not be a little sensitive? I was 105 when I got married. By the time the 2 baby came I had put on about 50 lbs. He didn't seem interested in me anymore. He would look at real skinny women and say they need meat on their bones, yet he married me. After the 3rd baby, it got to the point that I was lucky if we had sex twice a year. I wear a size 12, a little overweight, but average. Men don't look at women with my shape and whistle or cat call, etc. So how do you think we are supposed to feel about our weight, when things like that go on.

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Fri 01/23/09 02:08 AM
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Fri 01/23/09 02:04 AM
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Fri 01/23/09 02:03 AM
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Fri 01/23/09 02:01 AM
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