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Tue 02/10/09 06:05 PM


Thanks! i'm excited to be here. So another ash huh? That's my life story haha. We'll work it out, hopefully not too much confusion.


welcome, im new myself, but there are great people in here


It seems like it, I am looking forward to getting to know all of y'all!

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Tue 02/10/09 06:02 PM


What are guys really thinking when they read 'a few extra pounds?' Do they think that she has an extra 5-10 or an extra 30-50? Do they think curvy or fat? Just curious.


Some women can't really differentiate or don't know what to measure against..so 'few extra pounds' will make every men to look carefully what she really meant. I'm being honest, while others trying to be nice and you want real answers instead of flirt lines so here I am.

The 'few extra pounds' is the border category, where many men get cautious. While everyone goes with the slim, slender, athletic, thin, the "few extra pounds' is the breaking point. And women, who aren't just "a few" extra pounds, should not be ashamed to say whatever size they are, because it makes all men suspicious, especially if there are no full-body pictures available.
And those who are 'more extra pounds' should not be ashamed either. Many people will value them for their honesty and many don't really care about, but they will more care about trust and truthworthiness and this is usually the first line of failure, where the men notice a problem with honesty.

Hate me now, I know weight is a problem for many, even I had a problem with it a couple of years ago..but please be honest, especially if you want to date and there is a chance of personal meeting and everything will come to the surface , sooner or later.


No hate here, I want the honest answers. I completely understand where you are coming from, because so many people do have a distorted picture of what their body really looks like.............

On the hunt for a full body pic so noone questions it. haha

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Tue 02/10/09 05:57 PM
Thanks! i'm excited to be here. So another ash huh? That's my life story haha. We'll work it out, hopefully not too much confusion.

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Tue 02/10/09 05:52 PM
Same here, chicken fettuchini, mmmmmm. So glad to be home at a decent hour.

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Tue 02/10/09 05:46 PM


Hey guys! I would love to join in!


welcome read rules page one of this thread enjoy ya self please ad feralcatlady an myself so we can email matches when ur not around..


Adds complete! I'm excited! This seems like a great group in here. How is everyone doing tonight?

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Tue 02/10/09 05:40 PM
Hey guys! I would love to join in!

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Tue 02/10/09 05:39 PM
I agree. Or at least give some better options. Curvy should definitely be on there. I wanna check that box!

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Tue 02/10/09 05:11 PM
I don't see it! Where? Haha

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Tue 02/10/09 05:06 PM
Either, I am a pretty affectionate person. Gotta draw the limit when it comes to making porn in public :banana: :banana: :banana:

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Tue 02/10/09 05:03 PM
what

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Tue 02/10/09 05:00 PM

I was mislead:angry:


I have but didn't find out until much later. A$$! Needless to say, as soon as I found out, I had to chunk the duece (wow, I'm so gangster)

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Tue 02/10/09 04:57 PM
drinks laugh

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Tue 02/10/09 04:55 PM


CURVY something to grab



What he said.


That's what I was thinking :banana: :banana:

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Tue 02/10/09 04:54 PM

I think you look beautiful in your pics, so you shouldn't worry.


I'm not worried, completely comfortable with my body. I do know how many people lie online and put average when it should be heavyset, so I don't know if guys automatically add 10 lbs to what they think they see. Just being nosy....

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Tue 02/10/09 04:50 PM
What are guys really thinking when they read 'a few extra pounds?' Do they think that she has an extra 5-10 or an extra 30-50? Do they think curvy or fat? Just curious.

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Sun 02/08/09 07:21 AM
Love the tattoos on my men. I have a few of my own and I am glad they are so expensive, cause I would be broke otherwise.

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Sat 02/07/09 05:47 PM

girls like to laugh and have SEX!


haha hit the nail on the head!

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Sat 02/07/09 05:35 PM
I LOVE Southbeach. It is open until 5 and the funnest crowd you can imagine. If you are going there looking for a girl, try elsewhere. The crowd is a ton of flambouyant gay men and their straight girlfriends. The womens restroom is distgusting but the mens is amazing. There is gay porn playing on a flat screen above every urinal. The bathrooms are pretty much come and go as you please. I highly recommend it. Good time! There are also male gogo dancers that are oh so sexy.
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Sat 02/07/09 04:14 PM
It looks great! Good luck to you!

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Wed 01/28/09 09:02 AM
I have had pretty good luck with it too and the poster above is right, you have to put yourself out there a little bit as well. Getting the communication started is not "the man's job" Make a move, it'll pay off.