I agree, long distant dating can be tough, especially if one is not open to moving closer if things work out. You are not only pretty on the outside, but from reading your profile, and even your post here, you seem like you are pretty on the inside too. And, that's what's important. Personally, I wouldn't worry about stating that you want to find a "fit" man, as we all want to be attracted to the one we care for, but in the same sense, should want to be attractive to the one that cares for us. But, I hope you don't close your eyes to someone that is not 100% fit, as that can always be something that can be worked on. Could even be something that can be fun to be worked on together. :) Good luck in your search in finding someone close to you, as I have a feeling that any guy who can catch your eye, is going to be one heck of a lucky guy!

I like camping, but also horse camping.

Doesn't look like your attempt worked. :( I just found this site, and forums, but the whole site doesn't look like there's much happening.

Just outside of Rochester here. Wow, this site doesn't look like it gets much activity?

I'm a transplant from Oregon. Been here 9 years, and both places (eg. Oregon and Minnesota) have their own special kind of beauty. As for loneyluver68, dude, you're 42 yo, if you want to move back to California, do it! LOL