I just joined this site and have tried other sites with no luck. I am looking for a semi attractive, FIT man, no large stomachs, but a big heart is GOOD and he must be open to falling in love. I keep trying long distance dating, but it wears on you after awhile, last ones were 90 and 165 miles from me and it seems all the good ones do live a distance away. Within 40 miles would be nice? Hoping someone on here can SHOCK me and show me there are good ones near me?

And before I get yelled at for looking for a FIT, thinner man. I am sorry, it isnt that I think I am ALL THAT, its that I know what I like and find attractive, we all do. I need attraction, not super model but someone that gets my juices flowing...I get grief for knowing what I want, but how many of you want to date a 600 lb toothless person? We all have things we look for and want in a person..Happy hunting...

I agree, long distant dating can be tough, especially if one is not open to moving closer if things work out. You are not only pretty on the outside, but from reading your profile, and even your post here, you seem like you are pretty on the inside too. And, that's what's important. Personally, I wouldn't worry about stating that you want to find a "fit" man, as we all want to be attracted to the one we care for, but in the same sense, should want to be attractive to the one that cares for us. But, I hope you don't close your eyes to someone that is not 100% fit, as that can always be something that can be worked on. Could even be something that can be fun to be worked on together. :) Good luck in your search in finding someone close to you, as I have a feeling that any guy who can catch your eye, is going to be one heck of a lucky guy!