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Fri 07/10/09 05:30 AM
Its ok...I like everyones opinions...or I would not have put it out there...actually my girlfriend told me not to be so available to him...and by Gawd I think she might be right...bigsmile

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Fri 07/10/09 05:24 AM
The thing to keep in mind here is the fact that I used to answer all his calls...and he took me for granted...now its just more interesting to him...yes he is trying to be controling...so many men are...and sometimes we women just need to steer things in another direction.

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Fri 07/10/09 05:20 AM

What?????

He sounds like an abuser

Mental abuse

And you seem to enjoy it!!

Not for nothing........


LOL...Hes not an abuser...he just a very stubborn man...

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Fri 07/10/09 05:11 AM
Well you can all say what you want...but I ignored another text last night...he was treating me like crap...what did I learn? I am learning that the man I care about IS thinking about me...so maybe there is hope. I just feel sometimes some men need to feel like they are losing something good before they can appriciate it...and it sucks to have to do this but I can tell you just asking him to pay attention to me would have done no good...it would have just boosted his ego...

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Thu 07/09/09 06:28 AM
I know its easy to say move on....soooo easy! But when they are such a nice guy it can be difficult. I still talk to mine once in awhile...the funny thing is he is so respectfull in a way...LOL...like he has been already been domesticated by some other woman...LOL

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Thu 07/09/09 06:24 AM
I met a guy like that...I confronted him a million times and he would never admit it...he kept calling me and telling me he wanted to be in my life...but he was never available.

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Thu 07/09/09 06:22 AM
This girl finally has a day off!

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Thu 07/09/09 06:15 AM
I guess I want him to know how it feels to not have a call returned...yeah hes always there but ONLY when HE feels like it.I have been afraid of the truth for some time now....

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Thu 07/09/09 06:10 AM

No games!!!!

Confront the man!!!!
Face to face!!!!

Tell him everything you feel!!

Let the ball be in his court:heart:





I agree...I just was not ready for that yet...

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Thu 07/09/09 06:01 AM

If there are red flags, you need to act on them.
NO ONE should ALLOW themselves to be used.
You Do have CONTROL


I agree (FINALLY!) I was there at his beck and call...now if he wants me he can come to me. If he doesn't its his loss. It took me a long time to get here.

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Thu 07/09/09 05:49 AM
You did the right thing...you never know what people will do.

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Thu 07/09/09 05:43 AM
I finally did not answer my mans text...I know it sounds like a game but I think hes just using me...I figure if he really likes me for me then he will call again or show up at my work...just tired of being used.

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Thu 07/09/09 05:18 AM
Size should not matter...but it somehoe does. I guess everyone has a personal preference.

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Wed 07/08/09 05:32 AM
Well welcome to the club...

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Wed 07/08/09 05:05 AM
Very cool!

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Tue 07/07/09 06:05 PM
LOL...thats a tough one...

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Tue 07/07/09 05:50 PM
If the guy really likes you it won't matter...

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Mon 07/06/09 05:31 AM
Give her the boot...she came to be with you...

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Sun 07/05/09 07:37 AM
I guess its just something I would have responded to...

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Sun 07/05/09 07:30 AM
Yeah, maybe your right...LOL I will just forget about it...