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Topic: Babies?
luvd131's photo
Tue 07/07/09 05:48 PM
Do men generally shy away from women with young children (I have a one month old) more then they would women who have older kids?

mry's photo
Tue 07/07/09 05:50 PM
If the guy really likes you it won't matter...

PATSFAN's photo
Tue 07/07/09 05:50 PM
scared Kidsscared

no photo
Tue 07/07/09 05:51 PM
I would say it depends on the man. Some will be fine with dating someone with kids. Some will not.

TxsSun's photo
Tue 07/07/09 05:52 PM
You are young. It shouldn't be a problem at all.

Gossipmpm's photo
Tue 07/07/09 05:52 PM
I dont know

Spent years taking care of my daughters

NOW

That they're grown I'm looking

RKISIT's photo
Tue 07/07/09 05:53 PM

Do men generally shy away from women with young children (I have a one month old) more then they would women who have older kids?
we can make all the babies you wantflowerforyou

luvd131's photo
Tue 07/07/09 05:54 PM
well I'm 20 so it would be kinda rough to wait for 18 + years to find someone I want to be with right?

ledi180's photo
Tue 07/07/09 05:55 PM
Think that's the path I'll be taking flowerforyou

I dont know

Spent years taking care of my daughters

NOW

That they're grown I'm looking

luvd131's photo
Tue 07/07/09 05:55 PM
haha thats cute :-)

no photo
Tue 07/07/09 05:55 PM
Depends on a lot of factors. Someone your age isn't going to have an older child anyway.

A man from my age group would be more inclined to pursue a woman whose children are older or out of the house. Been there and done that as far as raising kids.

If you're looking at men close to your age then it boils down to whether they can handle that type of responsibility yet.

Unfortunately, I'd say no in most instances. However, that's not going to stop them from pursuing you since you're an attractive woman...

wannacuddlewthme's photo
Tue 07/07/09 05:57 PM
Have you seen my son's mother?grumble

RKISIT's photo
Tue 07/07/09 05:57 PM

well I'm 20 so it would be kinda rough to wait for 18 + years to find someone I want to be with right?
if thats how you feel..i was just kidding..gosh,wheres a liger when you need one:smile:

luvd131's photo
Tue 07/07/09 05:57 PM


Do men generally shy away from women with young children (I have a one month old) more then they would women who have older kids?
we can make all the babies you wantflowerforyou

haha

TxsSun's photo
Tue 07/07/09 05:58 PM

Think that's the path I'll be taking flowerforyou

I dont know

Spent years taking care of my daughters

NOW

That they're grown I'm looking





I waited 8 years, but I was 30. There is a difference than being 20.

no photo
Tue 07/07/09 05:58 PM
here is my opinion. to me, it doesn't matter what age the child is....if i was interested in someone and she had a child...i would at least make an effort to bond with the child. it matters not the age of the child ( be it young or a little bit older )...if i really cared for the woman, i would give them BOTH a chance. to me, i would have no problem helping to raise another person's child...

luvd131's photo
Tue 07/07/09 06:01 PM

here is my opinion. to me, it doesn't matter what age the child is....if i was interested in someone and she had a child...i would at least make an effort to bond with the child. it matters not the age of the child ( be it young or a little bit older )...if i really cared for the woman, i would give them BOTH a chance. to me, i would have no problem helping to raise another person's child...

Aww

lonetar25's photo
Tue 07/07/09 06:02 PM

Do men generally shy away from women with young children (I have a one month old) more then they would women who have older kids?

i think it depends on the circumstances,
i`d certainly wonder why they were in that position
if i found out someone i was dating had a child, i`d actually hope they were younger rather than older
however, me personally, deffinatly wouldnt care eitherway, kids are great and no one worth thinking about would right you off for having a child

no photo
Tue 07/07/09 06:05 PM
Part and Parcel of the package most of the time.
People had and continue with their lives before the meet someone new.
Kids are usually part of the deal one way or another.
Yours or theirs, sometimes both.

luvd131's photo
Tue 07/07/09 06:12 PM
true...

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