I'm 42 and for the last two years been putting my life back on track after getting away from an emotionally abusive spouse. She has been living two years with the guy she replaced me with and our two daughters since forcing me out and finally in the process of divorce. I have been trying online dating sites for off and on months now and no closer to even finding someone to get to know. I know the type of woman I am looking for, what I want from life and someone to share it with. All I need is the chance.