not entirely sure if this is covered somewhere else, but i couldn't find any answers... the biggest issue i have seen here, on this site, along with other sites that are similar, is i have troubles differentiating between people who have been online recently, and people who have long forgotten about this site... other than reading their profile. becoming totally enthralled with them, and then coming to the realization they are possibly long married at this point...

the only way i have seen to do that is using the "who's online" feature, amd then the issue is everyone is from the other side of the continent!

any thoughts, ideas or tips?