I want to know why is it that guys won't tell the truth when they don't want you anymore? I have been dating this unavailable man off and on for about 8 years. Now I know he doesn't really want to have any real relationship with me. For one, he can't and for two, he doesn't feel me like that. And of course he hasn't told me this. He keeps telling me that he likes me and really wants a relationship with me and that he is working on making that happen, but all of his actions says otherwise. He doesn't call me often, he doesn't accept any invitation that I have made to go out, etc. Now I know all of these signs are telling me that no he doesn't want me, but I want him to be man enough to say it. Why won't men just be real?