The real answer here is---if you arent on the caliber of "Christie Brinkley" the hottest model ever--stop looking for it. I'm not. Look for something in your realm of possibillity.

I have doing some research for a home laptop and all the user ratings that I have found for laptops with Vista have been poor, unless you have at least 1GB or more memory installed. They all state that Vista is super slow and takes up too much memory space in the computer.

I like it much better to get no response--it sends the message--and if you ask someone why they have responded negatively or have not responded--I feel you should be prepared for the real answer--and not something sugarcoated. Don't ask a question you aren't prepared to hear the answer to---thats why I never ask!!!!

HA HA thats great--"I'm just not that into you"--fits but it is still not nice. Loved the book.

Thanks Drew---Thats kind of my point---but if someone asks you why you feel you are not a match--should you tell them honestly or let it go?

OK--What I mean is that I really don't mind people not responding back to an email cause that tells me that they are not interested--its not like we are dating. I just dont like someone asking after our first email--why I am not interested-- because I don't want to hurt anyones feelings by telling the truth.

I already know this answer. People are not too busy. They are not interested. Plain and simple. We have probably had a couple message conversations with someone from time to time. When they stop messaging back---they are not interested anymore. Things change, and its not the end of the world. We should not take it personal. I don't, and I have no hard feelings toward that person. But why would someone ask what it is that makes them not the one for you? I refuse to hurt someones feelings by really telling them why-- I think it is better to just let it go. Any comments on this?

Good luck!!!!