Hmmmm



Yet you asked for a rating

Yep! Indeed you are positively and resolutely negative! If that's what you were going for you've succeeded. Anyway, I'm out...


Good luck!

I, personally, don't see anything wrong with the profile. Many people don't read profiles so changing it won't really matter.

That being said, you posted here for opinions on YOUR profile. If someone doesn't like it, it is par for the course. Criticizing repliers profiles is not right. They didn't ask for a rating. You did. People give opinions in this forum

Okay, you asked...

The blurb at the top is way too long.
The blurb indicates you want someone else to conform to your standards.

I see no problem at all with your photos.

Some of your interests are a little too long for a possible match.
The interests are more for key words than sentences. Think word tags;
composing music, music, easy listening, hip hop,
dance, dancer, art, painting, artist, murals, horses, horse racing, reading, libraries, spirituality
Like that so there is more of a chance to match others tags.
The interest tags are more for message topic starters that sending a message itself.

The first sentence is filled with possible tags. I didn't find it threatening at all.

Most normal people despise arguments and conflicts. it sets the 'tone' of your profile to the negative. Consider rephrasing as a positive statement.

As I read on I see more negative and it puts me off. Its not warm and inviting. Some of the things you mention would be appropriate in a message reply more than on the profile.

A lot of what you wrote is just fine. It does have a negative slant and the profile is there to attract the one for you. As you put it, your soul mate.

What I see is someone that is negative and I would just pass right by without interest. I look for positive, up-beat and enticing.
Yours looks like you don't want to be contacted.

Well, there you go. This was my opinion based on what I look at.
Its your profile and I believe you should write it anyway you want.

I think your profile is meaningfully written and reveals you as a wonderful individual. People are incomparably different, especially among people who live single, as are on this site. Any notion of a need for two to be exactly equal is not likely to be as enriching as a friendship that both enjoy. The part where you mention reporting and deleting someone's profile if they are uncivilized is the only thing that seems intimidating. For example, when I start opening up I am always nervous that I might be thought of as a freak who is better off axed. Anyway, hope you are feeling the love from above and around.

I know .. I am laughing too .. next time you have prostate issues ... I will completely forget about being tactful

I counted four nots and one no....

Haven't bothered to look at your profile. But your forum personality does come off as being just a wee bit hostile.

Nice I thought

These pictures you get, if you get any big ones can you send them to me, I can pretend it's mine

It's okay. Not intimidating to me, but not all that attractive either.

Here's the thing, saying what you do not want will not lessen the chance of undesirables landing in your inbox. I'd completely rewrite the essay focusing on the positive aspects of who you are and the type of person you seek.

The photos are okay, but I'd add another closer full body shot.