I know what you mean, it's a sad sad world when they break away from Hurricane Ike coverage to give you ever half hour updates on the Caylee Anthony story.

Don't get me wrong I feel really bad for this child that has dissappeared pratically right in my own back yard. But I'm afraid the child is dead at the hands of it's own mother. Now while it may have been accident this is not known? The continuing cover up of what actually occured is no doubt the fault of the mother... I do feel bad for the neighbors of the Anthony family as the media circus and protesters has got way out of hand. Regardless of what I think about the Casey or the Anthony family. They have ever right to defend their property from tresspassers. So if a protester gets harmed for entering on to the private property of the Anthony's then it's their own fault they should have known better.

As for Casey the mother of the child I sincerely hope the law enforcement can obtain all the legal evidence they can to bring about the closuer of this case. It will be difficult for the DA to prosecute her on murder without having a body as evidence. It has been done before but very rarely and its not an easy conviction to obtain...

I fear the little girl either drowned or some other tragic event occured to bring about her death. The mother then fearing she would be branded a murder because she had done nothing or worse she actually did kill the child sought to dispose of the body. The stolen gas jugs and shovel would lead one to believe she built a burn pit and torched the body. The fire only being hot enough to burn everything but the bones then took what was left to a place where only the alligators live, thus practically removing what exsisting evidence remained...

Your entitled to your opinion. I was never looking for anyone's pitty.

I'm sorry to hear that, you certianly have my prayers...

I wasn't ignoring you I was addressing comments of substance. Besides anything you have to contribute can be said here, can it not?

I'm sorry if it upsets you that someone 17 years my senior isn't someone I want messaging me. Let alone someone who only presents her belly for the world to see. If you ask me I find it a little too creepy someone your age trying to message younger men. Maybe others would be flattered but I'm just not into Cougars. I find it just as disgusting as a 19 year old women would someone my age trying to message her...

I have my restricts in place and the only two criteria is distance and age. It's pointless to try and engage in a realtionship without some form of commonality or the ability to physically be with the person. I'm sure there is some wonderful people all over the globe but it's just not pratical for the purposes of dating if you don't travel.

I'm not claiming to know women better than you. I'm just saying I can post a profile, send a message or what ever and not get a reply or one single hit.



LOL, please spare me the poor pity party parade. I don't for a single minute feel sorry for myself. I completely able to accept that there are some people in this world just not cut out to
be deemed datable. It's really not all that unusal as it happens in nature all the time. Those with the most desirable traits are sought after by the females, those who are not go extinct.



I'm not bitter about it and certainly not lashing out about what women desire. What escapes my understanding is how they seem to say attraction grows with time but pass up opportunity after opportunity. You've got to communicate if anything is going to happen... That's the thing I speak of when ever I've messaged someone it just went ignored. If it was I that waited for a message then I'd be waiting until the sun went supernova for that to come around.



I've been called many things but nice has never been one of them. I've been thoughtful, I've been kind, I've been generous, but nice never! I'd leave you standing on the curb if you start acting like a spoiled little cry baby who always got her way with daddy.

Give it a try then come back and tell me it isn't so...


If that was true I'd have to beat them off with a stick. So, I know that's not it!

while you make take exception to yourself I assure you most women aren't that way. Especially so in my region as it a material world and it's all about me attitude.




I am what I am if I'm not given a chance they will never know they just base their opinion on a picture and move on...




Evidently many do and besides I've got better things to do than spinb lies like those plyers they go after time after time.

As for the Hooking up remark presented by another poster. Give me a break I realize some people do that but I'm not one of them. My commitment runs deeper than a saint's. But that doesn't mean I some sort of nice guy. I do my best to treat others with decency and respect but I will not permit someone to disrespect me as only a coward doesn't stand up for what is right.

My apologies I wasn't suggesting any such thing... Please feel free to write or make friends with whom ever you like.

No, I agree they base it entirely upon looks...
Maybe you don't believe it but you could give the MIT test a try yourself. They discovered a good looking guy can be as wonderful or as awful as he wants and he will always beat the the average guy no matter how much he has to offer.


As for interest and attraction being built up over time. I agree wholeheartedly, but that can't happen if they don't communicate? What's the guy suppose to think he sends a message she ignores it and that is some how going to build her attraction? How is she to discover this if she doesn't write back?

It really doesn't bother me and certainly doesn't frighten me the least.

In a couple of years people will think nothing of it and go about their lives as they have always done. Your more like to win the lottery than get hit by a bullet in the cross fire of a permit holding gun owner and his attacker.

Heck I haven't even had any luck making friends with such sites. I mean in order for that to happen they would have to write or at least reply to a message I've sent. So, even if they aren't romantically intrested they are still being picky who they will befriend, which seems to be based upon looks as well...

I'm not looking for pitty just voicing an observation of my experiences of online dating. I believe others deserve the right to hear the not so happy ending stories...

The reason I don't have much writen on my profile is because I've learned it don't mount to a hill of beans. I've had professional profiles and I've had ones I've wrote and neither got me any messages or flirts. If you don't look a certain way then your just not going to get any messages.

So, No I'm not likely to ever grace the cover of GQ magazine. I don't have a PH'd nor make a 6 figure yearly income. That eliminates me from about 98% of the females on the internet seaching for Mr. Perfect, which I'm not nor ever will be.

I was far more open minded about this sort of thing years ago. But as time passed and I begin putting profiles up on every site I could find. Thinking that would surely net me some messages or even an occassional hint. But atlast nothing ever came from it, just an empty mail box... That get's one to wondering what's the problem? You make yourself an appealing profile, you improve upon it then you write people that interest you and always improving upon your communication skills in each message. Yet, still nothing comes from it. That's what makes you wonder what is really a matter here? You know now you can reason it's not your profile or the messages you've sent. The only thing left is one's looks...

Well, then I must have the patent on that? LOL... I don't ever get mail and I've tried several sites over many years. I get the uneasy feeling they pass me over because they feel I'm not attractive neough for them. Do you not also get this feeling as well? Believe me it's not due to a lack of effort for I've wrote more messages than I dare count and never get a reply.




LOL, I don't even get the scammers how pathatic is that? LOL

Are these things all they are cracked up to be? Some say yes while others say no? As for myself I guess one would have to lot me in the "No" boat. I've tried many of them over several years and never have I once met anyone. In fact it's hard enough to get someone to even reply back with a simple Thanks but no thanks response. In most cases you just get ignored... Now If you're one of those in the "Yes" group. I'm sure it's a total pleasure for everytime you log on there is mail waiting for you...

My point being is it truley a waste of ones efforts if they never get messaged over many years. Woulkd that not be a hint that your just not attractive enough to anyone and just give up?