I understand that men my age are not looking to settle down, which is why I search for men between 25-45.

Thanks for bringing me into the joke. I get it now. Perhaps unique wasn't the right word for what I am portraying here on yet another website used to find a significant other like everyone else hunts for as well. My blog may be very detailed, it may explain what I like and don't, but it isn't outside of the range of human emotion expressed in this internet venue.

I suppose I am not unique at all. I am very traditional, old fashioned in many ways. Even my blog provides examples of that. I like good looking men who make good money and spend it on me. Heard that one before? And I haven't posted the less aesthetic attributes about myself, as many don't.

If being unique is important to me, perhaps I should add to my profile with an explanation that I love who I am, but I am lonely. Not just "wow I wish I had a bf to take with me to this new restaurant" kind of lonely. But rather, "I take great pride in my efforts in relationships. When I lose a relationship I lose all I worked for, and in essence, I have been raped of the bond with another soul. I cry myself to sleep wondering when I will have the feeling of someone sleeping next to me again. I wonder if next time I can cook breakfast for someone who appreciates it."

That all sounds a bit too dark. No sense in scaring away men simply because I am working through temporary insecurities. So I suppose I will conform then and stick with the typical bright smile and happy go lucky persona seeking LTR like everyone else in this vast earthly blue.

Were there any others who might want to help me with the specifics of my post? Is it too long? Is it lacking interests? Are the pictures clear?

Thanks for the previous posts... this has been helpful and hopefully a work in progress.

I am wondering if you could take a look at my profile and let me know if it is any good. What might I be missing? Are the pictures sufficient? Any more text I should add about myself?

Even if you are not into me personally, this would really help me out.

Thanks!