I am wondering if you could take a look at my profile and let me know if it is any good. What might I be missing? Are the pictures sufficient? Any more text I should add about myself?

Even if you are not into me personally, this would really help me out.

Thanks!

10!

We are all unique, though some of us are more unique than others.

Good profile.

looks good to me. Several pictures and good blog

Oh Lex where are you ?

That's what i was just thinking..

beat ya !

beat everyone......

My thoughts exactly LOL

Sorry violiness welcome .Thats an inside joke join in the forums and get to know us you'll understand !

Hi Violiness - it is a nice profile. And here is a link to Lex's
"Unique" thread:

http://www.mingle2.com/topic/show/266383

have fun meeting all the characters of mingle2!!
Welcome!

Thanks for bringing me into the joke. I get it now. Perhaps unique wasn't the right word for what I am portraying here on yet another website used to find a significant other like everyone else hunts for as well. My blog may be very detailed, it may explain what I like and don't, but it isn't outside of the range of human emotion expressed in this internet venue.

I suppose I am not unique at all. I am very traditional, old fashioned in many ways. Even my blog provides examples of that. I like good looking men who make good money and spend it on me. Heard that one before? And I haven't posted the less aesthetic attributes about myself, as many don't.

If being unique is important to me, perhaps I should add to my profile with an explanation that I love who I am, but I am lonely. Not just "wow I wish I had a bf to take with me to this new restaurant" kind of lonely. But rather, "I take great pride in my efforts in relationships. When I lose a relationship I lose all I worked for, and in essence, I have been raped of the bond with another soul. I cry myself to sleep wondering when I will have the feeling of someone sleeping next to me again. I wonder if next time I can cook breakfast for someone who appreciates it."

That all sounds a bit too dark. No sense in scaring away men simply because I am working through temporary insecurities. So I suppose I will conform then and stick with the typical bright smile and happy go lucky persona seeking LTR like everyone else in this vast earthly blue.

Were there any others who might want to help me with the specifics of my post? Is it too long? Is it lacking interests? Are the pictures clear?

Thanks for the previous posts... this has been helpful and hopefully a work in progress.

Hi!!!

Welcome!!

Tammyheart:

hi violioness,

did you read Lex's profile? might take a while to get through it....



everybody looks for something special. a high degree of compatibility.
the interesting thing is that it is different for everyone and yet....
it is also the same - compatibility.

as far as helping you with your profile, my only suggestion is that
you read a number of them both male and female. you may start with
my friends list if you like. there you will see a number of approaches
and see what you like or dislike in a profile.

if you want to browse anonymously you can use stealth mode so that
others can't tell when you randomly read their profiles en masse.
sometimes it is instructive to read bad profiles.

and welcome to mingle2, the unique forum where everybody is different!

(except Lex)

It's a great profile and was interesting to read. I actually read the whole thing From the looks of it, it looks like your firm on what your looking for, and at the same time. It seems your ready to give the same in return. But in reality, being on the net at your age. I'm really curious of what age groop your interested in. The reason I say this. Most men at that age do not have a clue about life and this is the net.

I understand that men my age are not looking to settle down, which is why I search for men between 25-45.

Welcome to mingle.

Enjoy the crew.

We are a fun mangy lot.

damn, another young one !

Welcome to Mingle Violioness

I did read your profile and must say, it was not the typical profile on here which is a good thing. It seems you're honest about yourself and what you're after in a relationship. Hope this venue works out for you

Good luck

I'm almost 40 years and I have been through a lot in life and have some different ideas on life then you might have. Before I go on, i'm just sharing my thoughts here ok Lets just say your interested in getting to know me more on a personal level. Your what 21, 22 years old. Knowing I been married and have a child and have been through a good couple relationships. What does someone of your age really have to offer me or somone of my age?