Ok, I have to add my two cents here and play devils advocate.
First off, yes, it sucks that those guys stood you up. But, please keep in mind, that it is NOT YOU. I have plenty of guy friends that go through the same thing that we go through. It's pretty even.
All the replies here are pretty much perfect. Those guys that stood you up....are idiots and not worth a damn. There ARE decent 'people' out there. They are few and far between, but they are there. You just have to forget about those that aren't worth it and move onto the ones that are.

My favorite quote - "The only thing a girl should chase, is her vodka."

It's true. If they want us, and they are worth it....they'll find a way.

Keep smilin' sweetie....he's out there somewhere. ;)