its no biggy chris,, people can be easily offended and people in cyber worlds can get a bit defensive and judgmental

I think people just need to present themselves truthfully.


Maybe they are too 'shy' to know how to start the conversation so that a 'hi' is the safest intro for them.


There are women attracted to shy who will respond.


There are also those only looking for hook ups, who may start out asking sexual questions,, and there may be women into it that respond as well


I think the trick is that there are no shortcuts. There are many ways to get lots of responses,, but the best way to get truly compatible responses is by displaying whatever is natural to you.