The only real difference between the internet and talking to someone face to face is when online people show their true selves more because they think their anonymous, so they do all the things they really want to do in the flesh but to scared to in case they get caught.

My advice is to set a bar that all people you talk to have to be above, aka expect no less from them than they will get back from you, and you will soon find those good men n women to talk to.

As others have said, no picture no talk, possessive? kick them to the curb, they give you an email straight off? use a disposable account or don't risk them, most times they scammers.

I tend to look for profiles that have a normal picture, nothing that looks professionally done, and a bit about themselves.

Blessed be

Lesley xx

I find the app is great, I tend to use it much more than the website.