I joined December 2016 and since then the chatting has been pretty slow.

I chatted with this one guy who did not have a profile pic promised to send one and never did.

Another wanted me to chat with him only and delete all others who contacted me.

Then I met one guy who i was chatting with for a wèek or so who sent me a message ment for another person with love stuff etc (i know this because he said good luck with school in the end and I am not in school).

Reach the point where I am just wondering if there is still honest and good guys out there....

OMG
sorry to laugh but that was so freaking hilarious

But seriously...

Yes, there are still honest and good guys out there. You just have to be selective whom you chat with. No pic, no chat. Possessive? Kick his arse.

Join us in the forums... make friends while you're looking.

Um you do know that on the site he can not send a pic to you first? That the female has to send the first photo through message.

But as Rosie said the active people are in the forums.

Thanks. Still trying to recover from that whirl wind. And yes I did send a photo. Still he did not send his.

Join the forums. Some of the people can be brutally honest. But if you don't like what you read you can always skip on to the next topic.
Profiles without pictures and full of I'll tell you later, that gives you a clue to look elsewhere.
You contradict yourself when you say a guy only wanted you to ge exclusive but then get upset that another guy accidentally sent you the message meant for someone else.
This is a social networking site. For meeting, making friends, learning about a lot of people. Unless you both agree that you are mutually exclusive, it will happen that one or both of you are talking to many people as you consider your options.

Good luck. Hope you find what you seek

I agree so many people on here seem to be fake.. I get at least 1 msg a day with the same story... smh... I have started to tell them there story as soon as I recognize it... save us both time... just hope there are some real people out there still

i joined august of last year and i have experienced this and a lot more but the funny thing was when i stopped looking so hard it was that time that someone found me. dont lose hope but dont expect anything either here... we all get what or who we need in the end dear. good luck

*whispers* nope no one is really here... We are all just pixels on your screen.

Thank you all. I thought it was just me. Wheww

i would never chat with nobody who aint got no pic.

found his pic for ya...

Cause like most both male/female people over the internet can think they can get away "murder" so to speak, say do what they want, with no matter to the consequences in the end since we can't see whom is on the other end. They think basically if they don't see who they're talking to it don't matter, feelings or otherwise. Maybe they just like to lie all the time and it just second nature to themselves now who knows what goes on these people heads.
All I know is this fact while yes there are a TON of fake assed peeps out there, there are still a few of us out there, both ladies and guys that are good and honest even though it may be few and far between you just have to wade through all the bs to find us
But I do hope you find someone to talk with that isn't full of bs soon though ma'am
*end of rant*

Honesty offends people... That's the main reason why....

Aahhh!!! I knew my dog is a liar. Seems like she lied about her genre too. What a scammer!!!

maybe your dog is genderly confused.... Try building it a special bathroom and see if that helps...

honesty is such a lonely word...looking into my eyes honestly

Honesty is rare to come by.

There are worse places out there, involving both men and women. Drawing you away from the herd (community forums) and singling you out with email communications before pouncing on you.

People hide behind computers. It isn't just here. It is all ove the internet

Well the dog should go to school first in order to identify it....Lolzzzz