Hello , I read what you wrote and I agree it is not for you to solve anything here... the best thing you can do is to project love to all involved , you do not want to focus on any of the sad feelings as they wi11 surely manifest into greater problems. Take the stance of I love a11 who are involved and even meditate on the situation.. take a moment close your eyes , focus on the space just above your eyebrows at the center of your forehead and project all the loving feelings of joy you have on those you love and that should help.

Why does it seem that in the year 2010 that people cant seem to wrap their head around the idea of multiple marriage? One cannot place ownership upon another ..it comes from most ancient of times and is very good for spiritual growth and a strong family unit..