I have been looking for "Real" chat rooms, to talk about anything really, and mmh... all I seem ending up onto are scam sites or worse, while all I get is a sickly feeling having pumped my personal bio profile onto obscure sites for nothing. I think everyone is rather cautious, but hopeful.

I would prefer to put up an exploratory profile first.

Well, having a new kid is a really challenging time. I have one and for us it really wasn't working out even before she was born. But I stuck it out until she could walk and talk. Didn't make it easier, but at that point things were getting a bit easier with the kid, but the old issues became even more pronounced again.

There is never really a good time to walk out of the life of your beloved kid. But under 2 years, is really a bit unfair to both the mother and the child. That is my view.