Due you think its safe to date a guy who's has a child under 1......Im thinking how can it be over with the mother and she just popped the baby out....

Well, having a new kid is a really challenging time. I have one and for us it really wasn't working out even before she was born. But I stuck it out until she could walk and talk. Didn't make it easier, but at that point things were getting a bit easier with the kid, but the old issues became even more pronounced again.

There is never really a good time to walk out of the life of your beloved kid. But under 2 years, is really a bit unfair to both the mother and the child. That is my view.

Right and I think it's too soon ..to tried to get in another relationship

Then you already have your answer.

If you've already made up your own mind other people's opinion won't convince you because you'll still have your doubts