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thought
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I’d like to think I have faith over most of my fears
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need a girl
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If you’re referring to “Who’s viewed me” then you can’t do anything about it cause anybody can view you even if you have a gender preference. You’re free to ignore it or reply to them if they send you a message.
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funny 😄
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I need a boyfriend  
What’s so funny about that? Unless you’re looking for a boyfriend with a sense of humor. I think it's funny, that she is gone, yet guys are still trying to get on to her in other threads 
Yeah, they post once or a couple of times then they deactivate their account and that is a joke .
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Shh! There are people trying to sleep here. Who you saying that to Don? |
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funny 😄
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I need a boyfriend
What’s so funny about that? Unless you’re looking for a boyfriend with a sense of humor. |
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Everyone has a personality. What kind are you looking for?
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I also would like to say that rushing women into marriage and having kids is wrong cause no man would like a woman rushing him into such things. A real man should never rush a woman into anything, marriage especially cause this would only lead to divorce . It takes time to know each other. Also a real man should never rush a woman into sex either.
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world is different now
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we should go on a chaperone date were we can be relaxed and ourselves!!! Adults Usually do not need any chaperone on a Date. Agreed .
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Lotsa good advice, Julie. But some shltty advice was slipped in. I like and respect you, that's why it pains me to have to point this out - but I think it's important to point this out... - While I agree it's "cool" for a woman to be a virgin I don't necessarily think they should try to stay virgins. They should be finding a husband and partner to do life with, make babies and stay immortal. I think that's really important to stress, which brings me to my second point - I don't think you should compromise virtues or values either... but I think they should be realistic. You were saying something about Mr. Perfect, when Mr. Perfect doesn't exist. Hell, Mr.Perfect for her, doesn't exist. Nobody is perfect, and if one thinks that they have no faults of their own, or that a relationship doesn't have it's trials - they are delusional - Last one! I don't think there should be a carte blanche on "act on feelings" There should be a lot of logic used when making decisions. Feelings change by the hour or even hormone level with women. Logic never changes. Even though you made some okay points on the part of the being a virgin even though it’s old fashioned so is the woman finding a husband part too. For me I live off the true love waits philosophy and will only give up my virginity to my husband . I’m not saying that all young women should do so it’s up to them to give their virginity to whoever they want but at the same time no one should put them down if they are one. True they’re is no such person a perfect one and we all take the best and worst of us in a relationship and work through them in time until we can hopefully overcome them and find real maturity in them. |
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"Pride" not a bad word.
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Your ancestry....Didn't earn it - what exactly did you do? Your children..... You think taking credit for someone else's accomplishments is a good thing? Marsellus Wallace said it best "F*** pride. Pride only hurts, it never helps." I find the most prideful people are the most narcissistic Pride has its good and bad sides to it. As long as you’re modest about it then it’s good but if you constantly brag about it then it’s bad. I see no reason to bring people down if they feel they posted something they’re proud about. If you’re not proud about anything well you’ve let yourself down but drag the rest of us down with you. |
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world is different now
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Sorry to say I don’t find having a third person with us on a date relaxing. With someone else watching and staring at you and listening in our conversation when such things should only be between us, I’ll pass. I don't think the chaperon will be in the midst of the date. Are they not somewhere off to the side at a table or walking close by? I would hope so. |
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"Pride" not a bad word.
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I take pride in my Ancestory, (English, Scottish on mom’s side and Dutch on dad’s side), my family and friends. I’m proud to be a woman and wouldn’t change it for the world
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Oh and another piece of advice it’s totally cool to be a virgin like me
.Through people like you, it makes all of us accept that everything can be made possible in life n we can still move on with courage 
Stay blessed and cool, as always Julie 🥰 Thank you AatHeera ! Another piece of advice to is life is unscripted and can be unpredictable so act on your feelings. Don’t believe everything you see on TV or in movies where everything is scripted and predictable. Tune out anything that is negative or a bad influence and tune into anything positive that keeps you upbeat and uplifted .
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Fighting you for your love
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Good luck
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world is different now
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Sorry to say I don’t find having a third person with us on a date relaxing. With someone else watching and staring at you and listening in our conversation when such things should only be between us, I’ll pass.
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Fighting you for your love
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Nice short write
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Oh and another piece of advice it’s totally cool to be a virgin like me
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Thank you all and add Laska Paul’s words too. Another thing to add is you have every right to say NO if something doesn’t feel right to you and don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. Find true positive role models to look up to and they can be anyone from friends to family to famous people. Find inspiration everywhere and if someone’s words inspire you write it down in a diary or notebook and note who said it so if you need inspiration you’ll have it on hand and bring it everywhere with you. Remember there’s only one you in this world and there’ll never be another like you so always love that about you.
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Julie ABush , Intelligent answer from you . I have a Question for you ? What advice would you give to all the young women's here on how to deal with the pressures they are facing today ? My advice would be don’t give up and don’t compromise your virtues and values. Set goals for yourself and achieve them. Have good friends around you and most importantly keep your family around you. Find joy in your faith and the world even when everything around you seems bad. If something depresses you step away from it and drown it out. Keep your heart and mind in check and don’t let them get off balanced. Find comfort in faith over emptiness. Always find love and hope in everyday things and let it take you from there .
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My doctor explained to me that as long as I don’t get hot flashes or the kind of sweat that interrupts my way of life then no need to worry but could take supplements if I wanted to and so on.
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