Sometimes it's just about intimacy and sexual needs that are not met by your partner.

Say you have a spouse who decided unilaterally that sex was over but in most every other sense is a loving wonderful partner. (edit out all the medical drama) Does that condemn the other spouse to a life without ever again experiencing real intimacy and sexual fullness of life?

Say this situation has gone on for twenty plus years. Do you condemn that other spouse for the years of putting up with that unilateral declaration? Do you apply labels to that or, better still, if they'd just like to feel appreciated and attractive and loved in a physical sense?


Sometimes it's just about intimacy and sexual needs that are not met by your partner.