I know several of the governmental affairs reps, but they are all here in Colorado.

The greatest healing therapy is friendship and love.
-- Hubert H. Humphrey




So glad to hear that you are doing better!

I would completely disagree with this statement. I'm very organized in my personal and professional life and even teach a "Prioritize, Organize and Perform" class; but I see that as a survival skill! Having grown up in a cluttered and chaotic home, I learned early on that if I wanted to go have fun I needed to 1.) be able to find the door, 2.) collect my allowance for doing my chores, and 3.) help my little sister find her shoes so Mom could drive me to my friends house!

So applying that experience to my life as an adult, being organized allows me to dedicate the time, energy and resources I might spend trying to managed a messy life toward pursuing great adventures I might miss otherwise. For me, it works! (Less stress and second guessing myself too!)

I would agree that we all have our own idea of "red flags" or indicators when it comes to relationships. Most are based on our personal experiences and what we are looking for in a partner, so they are subjective.

Only you can decide if you want to proceed despite a self-established "red flag," or prefer to wait and see if the issue is really a deal breaker down the road. As in most things related to love, it's a gamble either way!

I trust my "gut," so I usually pay attention to those warnings; but on occassion I have decided to proceed anyway. That doesn't always end well, but sometimes a preconceived notion was wrong, so it's usually a learning experience! Using common sense of course, I think the key is knowing what you really want, deciding what is critical to you and what isn't, and being willing to step out of your comfort zone once in a while.....red flags and all!

Nah.....PLENTY of verbal diarrhea already!

Ask Butthead to help you figure it out! I heard he likes to Analyze profiles....

j/k Beavis

Me too! I own a copy, but always stop when I see it on. LOL....do you ever go ask the brother if he sailed the seven seas with the Dread Pirate Roberts? Or if he's seen the six fingered man? (I'd probably end up in the Providence Journal Police Blotter if I lived there!) j/k

The Princess Bride ~ Love that Wesley!

Hum Dinger was the best lover I ever had!

But after a while it became kinda ho-hum.

If I say "true," am I not judging?

Summer kisses lead to the "FALL" and those lovely bouts of winter hibernation! YEAH!!! (Reaches for the chapstick)

You KNOW you're on the board, ya big player! The whole summer kiss thing definitely put you over the top with the ladies!

Well said, Derek. Besides, I don't want a man to "adjust" or settle for the relationship just cause he likes the sex.

You need a few more body parts to be involved, like the heart and mind, for a relationship to work!

Tell the truth, SKPCG...we know that's how you broke your leg!!!

Well, turns out HE was the dog, but a girl's gotta keep trying!!

A few years ago I pulled up next to a guy with Illinois license plates and asked if all the scenery there was as good looking as him!

Pretty effective, actually He pulled over....

Good lord! No thanks!

Depends...very different for women then men.

Not judging, but it sounds like she likes the game. Some people enjoy the drama that comes with an on-again, off-again relationship. They enjoy the adrenaline rush that comes from finding someone new to mess around with, the secrecy, the building tension; then when things explode they want you, the injured party, to beg, cry and be miserable without them.

This seems to be a pattern with her. Better to close that door once and for all, then try to get on with a happy, functional life. I doubt you will find that with her.

Good luck!

Hi there! What's going on in Centennial these days? That area is growing like crazy!