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Wed 12/02/09 02:48 PM

Sin is anything that is not done in FAITH or that goes against the commandments and the Word of God. It's not just the 10 commandments, but all sin fall under those categories so I guess you could say that.

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Wed 12/02/09 09:11 AM

there are a lot of people on here who ARE desperate for a relationship

not so many in the forums I think

but there seem to be a LOT of people who's first post consists of "when will I find love"

there are many who seem to be so desperate to fall in love that they fall in love with a picture on a profile without ever knowing anything about the person behind it.
WELL PUT!! THANKS

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Wed 12/02/09 09:10 AM

i totally agree with you..desperate is not a good place to be, when your at that point you settle. You have to love yourself, therefore being ok spending time with yourself. My motto is..I don't need a man, i would like one to enhance the life i already have
THANK YOU!!!!!!! VERY MUCH

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Wed 12/02/09 05:20 AM
Ok...I'm very sorry for leaving out the "almost" before everyone but I wasn't speaking of everyone in general. The question about me having sex...I'm actually abstinent so perish the thought. All I'm saying is that many times we tend to think that someone else will "complete" us or something, but thats not the case. We all desire to be in a happ relationship, but we first need to be comfortable woth ourselves and we wouldnt have to necessarily look for someone. They'll eventually find us. And I'm not desdperate at all. I just got out of a relationship where we are still good friends. Hope I answered or made myself clear...

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Tue 12/01/09 02:08 PM


I don't mean to sound critical or anything, but why does everyone seem to be "desperate" for a relationship? If we coudl just give ourselves time to grow up and learn to be good on our own, we wouldn't need someone as bad...just a thought


And yet...here you are...
Im not really here for a relationship. just friends, lik my headline says...

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Tue 12/01/09 02:07 PM

OP:... that is a good question, and reasonable from your perspective... let me give you my perspective (since you ask)...

personally - I am not desperate at all. As a matter of fact I am quite happy with my life. I have worked hard all my life to achieve the goals and dreams that I have wanted since I was a teenager. It's been a good ride so far. Now, being on top of my chosen mountain - I look around and say to myself "gee, it would be nice to share this with someone... someone special"...

no desperation, no obsession -- it's just what I want. Will it happen? Eh, who knows... one cannot predict these things...

But to look at my situation and say "desperate" - I would reply, do not judge a man until you have walked a mile in HIS shoes...
Well then it didn't apply to you. I'm sorry if you thought it did...people know who they are.All im saying is that it doesnt take someone to post all these little "looking for love" quotes to grab someone's attention. If we took the time out to learn more of ourselves, the oppposite person would find us...you know?

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Tue 12/01/09 02:04 PM
Edited by jeffdawsey on Tue 12/01/09 02:09 PM

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Tue 12/01/09 01:44 PM
I don't mean to sound critical or anything, but why does everyone seem to be "desperate" for a relationship? If we coudl just give ourselves time to grow up and learn to be good on our own, we wouldn't need someone as bad...just a thought

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Fri 11/20/09 06:32 PM
Just saying hello to everyone. Hope to meet a lot good people and hopefully be able to help many people here.