When i get involved with a woman, she becomes the center of my attention. If what you put in is not =ly returned then what is the point? I have meet women that i wanted to help "be better", but it does not work. You cannot change someone, either they are or they are not a "fit" to you. You are not a "Xbox 360" that gets played because the "latest game" and then forgot about until the next game. Is there devotion between the 2 of you. Does he want to drown in your sweat from the passion? Is it REAL? Only you can decide for you.