if you arent getting what you need thats never good. It doesnt mean theat you can expect him to jump up and drop everything if you tell him, and not that you expect that either. But part of being in a relationship is being willing to change in small ways and meet the other person half way, or if you can even further. I feel like it would be perfectly fair for you to talk to him and ask him if he can be a little more romantic for, it doesnt have to be PDA or a big deal, just let you be held sometimes, or kiss your forehead in the mornings, or tell you your beautiful. Explain that for you this really helps, and you need it in a relationship to feel secure, a lot of people (men, and women) do. And then ask him if there is anything you can do, to make him happier, or make doing this easier (Sexual favors dont count! :)