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Mon 01/07/13 02:15 PM
I am blind and do a Podcast where i raise awareness about the talents, abilities and qualities of the blind community.
Hope to make new friends here!!!
Happy 2013 everyone!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Alvaro."

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Mon 08/01/11 07:36 PM
Hi friends, i would like to recommend 2 inspiring movis i saw lately:
One is called ITS GOOD TO BE ALIVE, that tells the story of a black baseball player that in ana ccident loses his ability to walk and move.
I am visually impaired so my next one is AT FIRST SIGHT, with Val Kilmer, is about a guy who has RP, the same disease i do have and how a woman finds in his heart the beauty she ws lookin for in her life.
Hope you like these movies and gives us all more suggestions to inspire us all!

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Mon 08/01/11 07:16 PM
Hi girls:
I am Alvaro and i am 37 and i am here looking for someone real who is honest and still believes in romance.
I am in South America and will move to the US in sometime.
I do not think distance is a problem and neiter is race or age.
i am visually impaired and i use a cane to help me walk.
I am hoping to meet someone nice here...
Thanksfor reading this message.
Alvaro.

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Thu 06/24/10 06:27 AM
Your a good man Krupa thanks alot.
And about your advice, got it, your smart too.
I feel very good today, I usually do, yesterday was not my bestd ay but I am abck at being positive and ready to go as theys ay.
Thanks for being a good listener here man.
God Bless you and God bless everyone on here.
We all are here for a similar reason and is wonderful to see a sense of camaraderie, of community, is great, if in our lives we all would pull together in the same direction the world would be a much better place.
Caring for others makes our lives better doesnt it?
Thanks and have a great day.
Alvaro.

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Wed 06/23/10 06:36 PM
What a ncie pack of people, I am sooo happy I decided to say hi and open my heart.
Crossroads, man thansk for the support, yes I am sure when time is right I will find someone, and to all of you, thank you for your respect and your decency.
I will be posting thigns in the music and mvoies area soon, one of the things that happens when you have a certain disability is that your sense of ear is pretty powerful so I have a good musical ear and adore music.
And movies are just the best therapy ever as music is too.
Anwyays I want to thank you all for allowing me to say all I needed to.
I feel better.
Goodnight all.

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Wed 06/23/10 05:24 PM
i need to add something else:
Obviously my idea is not to have a year or more long long distance relationship, I would travel to meet her in the US and I would invite ehr to come see me in South America.
But I am not dumb, I know the type fo woman I need aint the average girl, I need someone pretty special as my doc used to say, so as you all will agree, if I contact maybe a thosaund women, maybe 1 will say hell he may not see much but seems a good guy and thats all I want.
Well I need the 1000 options to find that only 1.
So looking is not an option, is my only option if I want someone.

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Wed 06/23/10 05:12 PM
Eric or Krupa whateevr you prefer em to call you friend:
I may tell you my story one day as it is not the average story of single guy but I need to comment on your reply.
First thank you for your ncie words.
Second yeah I agree, I have never been in love but I find a date when I am not looking.
Sadly my situation sis now such that I NEED someone, you see, I was diagnosed with an eye disease when I was 18, I now see about 5 percenrtage of vision in each eye, only that.
To add up, I live in South America where there is no treatment for my eye disease and thats one of the reasons why I am moving to the US.
However the treatment will take years to be available maybe ten, maybe elss or more.
As someone who has been alone all his life due to my life circumstances, and being 36 in 2 weeks, I am absolutely refusing to stay alone for long.
Noone here will be interested in my personal issues but I am a good guy and I dont have anyone to help me deal with my eye disease, you know, soemthing like walking hand by hand and caring for you, someone humane...
As I am goign to mvoe to the US maybe in a year or so and as I am traveling to the US this september, I am now seriously looking for someone.

Should I wait instead of looking? Yeah maybe but for someone who has not the possibilityt to drive, has not many friedns at all in where I live, has an inmens lvoe for American womne, dont ask why I just do, for someone who has helped his family always, for someone like that...
ITS TIME TO THINK ABOUT ME, I want a family, kids, I want tos ee the eyes of my woman and I want to see so much.
I cant wait til I move to the US only because I feel very in need of support emotionally by a woman, I need that.
Anwyays I made this decission because I need it, no I cant buy love but I can buy as many dating services as I need to in order to increase my options of meeting someone decent.

I told my parents when you have an eye disease that is verys evere and you have a good heart, damn you deserve someone!!!!!!!

So anyways Eric, I hope God wills ned me someone, I help aolot of women get a date but look at me, I cant do it for me LOL

I am a very positive person but I wont lie to you, I am ntof eelign that great rightnow, I dont care what people think, but I feel frustrated because there are many women in the US alone and I cant find one LOL

But anwyays I am sorry this topic ended this way, dotn want tod epress anyone just being me, I am super honest and thats all.
I even recorded a message saying what I want and what I offer women.
Yeah it soudns like I am too needy but please dont judge me, try to understand me ok?
Oh and for thsoe who think I shouldd ate women here where I am, I have and I have never liked latin women and they have not like dme, and what is aamzing is how American women that have got to know me say too absd theya re taken ebcause I have qualities thata re important for women there.
In any country you fidn good and bad, I just happen to prefer Aemrican women.
Anyways I hope you guys understand my thoughts and I hope people get a sense of who I am after reading this.

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Wed 06/23/10 12:31 PM
Thank you so much everyoen for your help and kindness.
I admit I never thought about joining the forums because in the past on forums I always have been surprised because peopel tend to be rude and very disrespectful and I am the opsite, I dont like trashing others but helping them and make friends.
Due to the nice welcoming of you all I will certainly particiapte in many discussions, I lvoe tot alk and have interesting conversations.
Thank you again and I am sure I will make good friends on here.
God Bless You.
Alvaro.

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Wed 06/23/10 12:14 PM
Hmmm, to me I like women that are sweet, honest and romantic, a woman with lovefor life.
If she has pretty eyes awesome but nothing in looks is important but the inside isssss.

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Wed 06/23/10 11:55 AM
Hi, I am Alvaro and alst Friday I became a Mingleplus member thinking it would expand my chances of finding nice women from NY and NJ.
Sadly I have found out there are many women here that are spammers and not even live in the US at all but theys ay they do.
I also wonder how to find Online women in NY, I have tried the Whos Online thing but that covers all members int ehw orld, not just NY and so is just impossible to find someoenf rom NY in that section.
And when searchign for women in NY, I find that msot are nto even Online for weeks, so is ebcoming more and mroe frustratging, I wonder if anyone knwos how to find Online women from NY, I thoguht this was easy but not at all, try ti yoruself and you will see most women are not Online, they ahvent been ont he site for voer a month, this happens all the tiem to me.
Am I doing soemthing wrong when looking?
I am seriously looking for love and thats why I paid but ahvent seen any beenfit really yet...