I keep looking at the profiles in my area and some of them catch my eye but I'm just so hesitant to send a message. I haven't been on a date in years. Let alone with someone I never met before. Half the people don't have the questions answered which makes me wonder how serious they are about this whole thing anyway. I get messages from men who aren't even in the same state as I am or they are inappropriate which I clearly stated I'm not looking for that. Any thoughts on this?

Thank you in advance.

Coming from a woman who gets messages, if I don't respond to someone it's because I'm not interested for some reason. Or I didn't see it because I don't use this site very often.