My husband does not want me anymore and it is hard to come to grips with this. He stays out all night and may not come home. Texts his co-worker (female) all types of night and day telling his family that I am just evil and making a mess of his life. Prior to this I was his everything and that was better to him and his child then anyone else. I truly don't understand all marriages have issues, but he is just given up so soon. I am good though. I'm just not understanding how someone would be so strong minded about getting a divorce but not be cheating. We talk and he still wants a divorce can someone tell me why and tell me why I still love him despite how this is going?