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hi, so i have never had a relationship ever. i want to know what is off putting about me? lol anyone answer? to be fair i dont actually go out and i keep to myself, im probably autistic or something i dunno. also look at that huge vein on my head, thats totally because ive been single my entire life. it really shows! lol (they removed my head vein photo but the one with the htler looking tash is ok? lol) As you seem sincere, maybe it is you..entirely. You project who you are by your words, actions and reactions. You also project that you expect failure. Then you give them reasons, handy. I have a fat friend who every time you come into her presence will tell a fat joke. I assume to get there before anyone else can, as armor. I am very different from you. The assumption I make is always, that they will like me. I went to 4 high schools, it was always the same. Always had a smile, a nod, a sympathy look for strangers. Do you? Or are you so poor, focused on the expectation of rejection that you cannot afford pleasantries? That is all it takes, really..you can train your resting face to be more pleasant. I had to, because people would always ask if I was mad at them ;-) It is a simple start, always have a list in your mind of all the things you do well, even if is only listening, a forgotten grace but surefire. Give yourself credit for the positive stuff you are capable of, might make you smile ;-) |
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Topic:
Drink Occasionally means
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Drink Occasionally means You can claw your way out of the gutter in less than 24 hours. |
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Topic:
Help me find tbe right woman
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What is wrong with you that need someone open-minded? There's lots wrong with me. Open-minded women welcome! |
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Im thinking I need to find someone who is ok with someone who speaks their mind and isn't afraid to use what some people may find as offensive language. .. You feel me? 
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Topic:
Help me find tbe right woman
Edited by
soufiehere
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Thu 11/13/25 10:34 AM
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I'm a 57-year-old entrepreneur and investor from Monmouth, Oregon, standing at 5'8". I'm a passionate traveler, home cook, avid reader, and hiker who values both the little moments and life's grand adventures. I believe in learning and growing through every experience and possess a great sense of humor. I'm looking for a genuine, kind, and open-minded connection with someone to share meaningful conversations and new experiences leading to marriage or long term. What is wrong with you that need someone open-minded? Welcome ;-) |
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Topic:
I MUST BE UGLY LOL
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In 7 years?
It suggests the scammers may be offended by the pits. Switch pics, enjoin the forums. Welcome ;-) |
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Topic:
long distance relationships?
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^^^^^^^ Very well said, totally accurate. As long as you haven't met it's a figment of your imagination. NOthing wrong with that as long as you're aware that it's not real and based on nothing. As soon as you start to think it is you're shooting yourself in the foot. So, practical advice..as YOU are the gung-ho one, I would back off and see if that makes any difference to her, it might lower her fear. It might give her impetus to continue the relationship. But if you do not meet, your hopes are forever tied to a dream...and dreams end, not always in a good way. |
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Topic:
chat recovery
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Topic:
chat recovery
Edited by
soufiehere
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Wed 11/05/25 03:01 PM
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hello,I accidentally blocked someone I was chatting with and now I can't find them anymore. please help me recover the chat or unlock them if possible. thank you so much 
If they are not Deactivated, their profile should be on your Blocked List. >>Mail>>BlockedUserList https://mingle2.com/blockeduser/list |
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Which way?
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A lot of words, but they make little sense. Was the effect intentional? I thought it was just me ;-) |
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what about my account
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Messages that are too big and take too long to write can "time-out" ...and not send |
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If they ever posted to the forums you can run their
nickname through Google: 'Mingle2 Nickname' should bring them up. Otherwise that feature has been gone some time. |
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Topic:
The Count of Monte Cristo
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What a wonderful book, the first to showcase all the 7 deadly sins ;-) |
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Some Ladies Use Too Much Perfume and Lotions on their Bodies. I agree, and it tastes awful. |
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Topic:
Best way to approach someone
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I usually smash my ice cream in their face 
Now this is original ;-) |
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Topic:
Your Popularity Meter
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... Ha ha mine will stay at the 40.. This is about the Stupidest Feature I have ever seen..  
Star Your Popularity Meter: 40/100  Today’s Wins
Checked Subscribe to MinglePlus (+20) Checked Daily Login (+20)  Still To Do
Unchecked Like 10 users (+20) Unchecked Like 20 users (+20) Unchecked Like 30 users (+20) Star Your Popularity Meter: 40/100
Today’s Wins Checked Subscribe to MinglePlus (+20) Checked Daily Login (+20)
Still To Do Unchecked Like 10 users (+20) Unchecked Like 20 users (+20) Unchecked Like 30 users (+20) (Found on your Account page BTW.) |
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Topic:
Best way to approach someone
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Simply say Hi or ask for chat.. Both are too common to get you noticed. Also, do not tell them how good they look, makes one seem interested in only looks. And don't call them 'dear' it screams scammer. And never say how great their profile is especially if you have not read it. Be sincere, even if it feels clumsy. If all else fails, I would go with the pigtail pulling ;-) |
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help
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Keep it to yourself. Then, if a relative is in trouble you might be able to help them. As opposed to the handouts they might automatically expect. |
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Junior is gonna be disappointed Well, he will learn he has to step on many stones to get across that river. He is not even at the river yet ;-) |
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Just checking ;-)
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